-- Posted by boombabyboom at 1:52 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Do guys like it when you're straight forward about crushing on them? Because I like this guy, we've chilled a few times and text non stop. I think it's pretty obvious when I flirt with him and he might have caught on. For new years I was drunk and texted him telling him I liked him, but he was drunk too so he either forgot about it, or just disregarded it and doesn't care. Do guys generally like when girls are forward about their feelings? Or is it a turn off, one of those old fashioned 'guy makes the first move' thing? -- Posted by ashleyacid at 1:53 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Just tell him you like it and stop fucking around. -- Posted by therave39 at 1:53 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Yes, if you're forward with us, we won't hesitate to fool around with you -- Posted by honeybee3333 at 1:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 really depends -- Posted by Sudo XE at 1:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 YES! -- Posted by bobbydigital at 1:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 some times its a turn off if a girl texts too much or makes it wayyy to obvious that she likes me -- Posted by LudovicoTechnique at 1:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 It changes from guy to guy. Personally, I don't like it, but it's not really a turn-off. -- Posted by Lihiro at 1:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 I don't think I'll ever make the first move. Too shy. Personally, I prefer them being open. -- Posted by fedoragirl at 1:55 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 I think you should be clear with him and say it again just in case he did forget!   -- Posted by jsgirl at 1:55 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from TheFortunate at 1:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 It changes from guy to guy. Personally, I don't like it, but it's not really a turn-off. I'm in love with you. -- Posted by boombabyboom at 1:56 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from fedoragirl at 4:55 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 I think you should be clear with him and say it again just in case he did forget! I don't want to push it, though. I only like him I don't want him to think I'm one of thoe girls that falls in love with every guy she meets o.0 -- Posted by hivemind at 1:57 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 tell him, but only if you think he might like you back. -- Posted by rancid freakin rawk at 1:57 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Too a certain extent, yeah. Just enough so that it's known, not goin overboard with it though -- Posted by xdreamingx3 at 1:58 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 just tell him. from my experiences guys seem to like that. -- Posted by LudovicoTechnique at 1:58 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from jsgirl at 1:55 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from TheFortunate at 1:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 It changes from guy to guy. Personally, I don't like it, but it's not really a turn-off. I'm in love with you. I don't like the fact that you're so straightforward about it, but it's ok, because I'm not entirely turned off. -- Posted by Smargon at 2:02 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 My boyfriend said he finds things like that attractive.. so.. go for it. Just tell him. -- Posted by RedNoir at 2:03 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Most men like to make the first move. They like the trill of the chase.