-- Posted by luminaryuprise13 at 3:46 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 If a guy keeps telling you he's being 'mysterious', what does this mean as far as a relationship goes? He doesn't talk at all. He knows this drives me up the wall. I'm not sure if he keeps doing it because he knows it's what makes me keep thinking about him, or he just generally doesn't like me. I asked him a rather personal question, and he told me in a facebook message a week later, after I asked him twice about it. He's not mean. He took me to work on a last minute notice, and was generally cheerful. I don't know if he's this cryptic with other people. It doesn't seem like very friendly behavior, yet he has a million friends (he's class president, after all). What do you think/how should I handle this? -- Posted by Anonymous at 3:47 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 if im anonymous am i mysterious? -- Posted by Rastafarian at 3:53 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Maybe it's a bad way of trying to seduce you. -- Posted by LoveKay at 3:55 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 He actually straight out said this is his way of being mysterious? Okay, that is gay. Seriously, this guy must be pretty unknowledgeable and/or immature. If he is trying to keep the flame from dying due to knowing too much about each other, then he is doing it in a totally wrong way. If I was in your position, I would have dumped him a long time ago. That just sounds ridiculous and stupid.