-- Posted by stuffydays at 8:52 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 So, is it some genetic programming in our blood to hate our significant other's ex's? Seriously, I can tolerate most people. But I can't STAND them. -- Posted by MystiqueBeauty16 at 8:52 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Not for everyone. -- Posted by bmthislovex3 at 8:52 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 yesh -- Posted by FiendWeathers at 8:53 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Well, my best friend was dating one of my exes...and I'm fairly certain he didn't hate me. -- Posted by LiLFLAKA at 8:53 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Yes it is cause i hate all my partners exes , maybe its cause they had him once and they can maybe have them again. -- Posted by Sector Corrupt at 8:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Hmmm... That's a good question actually. I can't think of a genetic reason hating your partner's exes would be beneficial, but on the other hand.. I really hate a lot of my girlfriend's exes. More of that may come from the fact they're assholes who consistently still hit on her though. -- Posted by A6stringpoet at 8:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 lol I go drinking with him (her ex) and the rest of our buds occasionally, so I guess not. =P -- Posted by blufindr at 8:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Null vote. My boyfriend hates my ex but my ex's girlfriend doesn't hate me and I don't hate my boyfriend's ex. -- Posted by agerask at 8:55 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 not really. my dating circles are very incestual. everyone in our group has dated everyone else multiple times before. if i hated every one of his exes i would have no friends, haha. -- Posted by snowcone200 at 8:55 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 I know my ex current bf wants me dead. She left him for me once, after she got mad at me and got back with him. He got her to not tlk to me. At first it was no touching,kiss or hug, that didnt stop me -- Posted by BackPorch at 9:00 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 I think that it is instinctual to feel threatened by them. I mean, if your boyfriend/girlfriend liked them once, who is to say they won't again. I think that it is something you have to overcome. -- Posted by blacklist at 9:20 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 nah i know my old GFs ex and we get along just fine. lucky fucking him though.. damn she was goooooooodd in bed. like dauuuuuuuumn. i kinda just chuckle whenever i see him