-- Posted by ang42490424 at 9:05 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 I have been separated from my x for a year, he was my first love. We were together for 2 before he started to distant himself from me, making me leave him. Well, what do you know, in 2 weeks, it will be a year since we have been separated and suddenly, he is back. He says he loves me, that then, he was so busy, he had forgotten that I was there. He is so sorry, but that now he wants to make it up. He has a ring and is going to ask my mom on Wednesday if I can go to California with him. We always had plans to go, get married, have a family. I thought I didnt love him anymore, but every text I get, I smile, like I would before. I think I still am in love with him. Just fooling myself that I wasnt, just so I can forget. But I never did. I would cry because I regretted my decision leaving him, telling myself I should have waited longer. So, what to do I do? Should I give it another shot? I am worried he might be too busy again, but I also think that things will be how they were before. What do I do? -- Posted by MusicMonkey at 9:07 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 To me it sounds like he was "too busy" chasing some other girl and now that that's over, he wants you again. All of this sudden-ness sounds like a bad idea. -- Posted by littlewing at 9:07 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Dont go to california with him, give him a chance but take it slow. -- Posted by stuffydays at 9:10 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 give him a chance, but no california. let your heart sink back into it a little more. then see if its for real. -- Posted by blufindr at 9:11 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Give him a chance but be cautious. -- Posted by HuffleHaire at 9:15 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Give him a chance, but make sure he knows the ground rules. You'll be quicker to act this time. -- Posted by IceTeaEdwin at 6:48 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Woa, I'm totally behind on this one >-> Well, on January 3 I would have told you to do what YOU want to do.   We live a short life and we must enjoy it as much as we can.  There are consequences for every wrong choice made, but there would be no rewards if no choices are made.