-- Posted by zombie4life at 9:24 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 really loose her virginity to another woman? I mean if so what do they do stick dildos in each other and break the hymen, or so they can say they have had sex? I mean I don't consider oral sex the loss of virginity. So how would that work? -- Posted by mcslovex3 at 9:25 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Virginity is just a state of mind. -- Posted by mto13 at 9:25 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 ...interesting question   -- Posted by thisisrlywierd at 9:25 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 idk if she can who knows -- Posted by OneSquared at 9:25 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 cant say but i know a 50 year old lesbian whose been with 15 women and still has her hymen. yet i never thought of her as a virgin... now meh confused -- Posted by agerask at 9:25 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 this question gets asked at least twice a day. -- Posted by stuffydays at 9:26 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 being a virgin is not an actual physical state. if so girls would be losing their virginity from putting tampons in. being a virgin is all about your own beliefs and thoughts. -- Posted by MixedDelight at 9:26 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 I consider loss of virginity to be penetration completed by a second party. Meaning either two males, a male and a female or two females with the use of toys. As long as someone else is involved in the penetration then virginity is gone. -- Posted by mto13 at 9:28 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from stuffydays at 9:26 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 being a virgin is not an actual physical state. if so girls would be losing their virginity from putting tampons in. being a virgin is all about your own beliefs and thoughts. then that means you cant loose your virginity to a dildo so if i believe im not a virgin then i wont be   -- Posted by blufindr at 9:29 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from mcslovex3 at 4:25 pm on Jan. 4, 2009 Virginity is just a state of mind. Exactly. -- Posted by A6stringpoet at 9:29 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Virginity is really a state of mind, it typically revolves around a window of sexual activity, not necessarily penetration for some people. It is really a form of coming of age ritual, as the act symbolizes a level of dedication to that type of lifestyle. So in other words, yes lesbians can lose thier virginity to one another, since the act of making love (not just foreplay) is the true determinate of virginity. -- Posted by mto13 at 9:31 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from MixedDelight at 9:26 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 I consider loss of virginity to be penetration completed by a second party.   Meaning either two males, a male and a female or two females with the use of toys. As long as someone else is involved in the penetration then virginity is gone. thats weird you cant loose your  virginity to a dildo by yourself but if someone else uses the same dildo then your not a virgin?wouldnt be the same thing