-- Posted by chicka2011 at 6:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 my bf and i broke up yesterday.. and i still can't believe this. he still wants to stay close? like friends with benefits (only he doesnt like that term because it sounds like hes only using me for sex) honestly.. i don't even know what to make of this anymore. i can't JUST be a friend to him. i still love him the way i always have. my feelings toward him arent different at all.. and he expects that we are just friends. wtf :\ -- Posted by The Fantasy at 6:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 shows how much he cared about you. -- Posted by bosss at 6:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 you'll never get over him if you two stay friends with benefits.. baaaaad idea. -- Posted by GeneralScEnE at 6:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 You'l get over it, it's better you stay friends than lose him from your life completly. -- Posted by skiba at 6:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Why did you break up -- Posted by chicka2011 at 7:00 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Quote: from skiba at 6:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Why did you break up because only seeing eachother 2 times a week wasnt enough for him -- Posted by Disposition at 7:01 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Dude, don't let him use you like that. Maybe you should stay away from him for awhile, since you know he's using you. The sex and stuff will keep you emotional attached and you won't be able to move on that way. You'll find someone else. I know that it's painful, though. -- Posted by Amazingness99 at 7:02 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Don't be friends with benefits with him, you'll NEVER get over him that way. Just stay away from him for a while, until you think you're ready to talk to him again. -- Posted by Berend at 7:06 am on Jan. 4, 2009 My best mate was going out with my other best mate. He got bored and broke it off, she still has feelings for him. New years eve they had sex: he believed it to be Break up sex, she thinks it's Make up sex. Now she's gonna get upset and feel used, probably get pissed off with me for still talking to him, he's... Fuck knows what he's gonna do, but essentially  It's all fucked up!   And now I'm gonna suffer some kind of backlash, from one or both peeps, just because he couldn't help but think with his testicles instead of his brain. But dammit, he's like a (in a guy love sense [JD/ Turk kinda thing]) lover to me... You know what.. I'm gonna put this in a post...   -- Posted by wallopwoop at 7:16 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Sounds pretty good to me. -- Posted by Pebbles123 at 7:20 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Quote: from bosss at 2:58 pm on Jan. 4, 2009 you'll never get over him if you two stay friends with benefits.. baaaaad idea. Exactly what I was going to say.