-- Posted by Anonymous at 7:55 am on Jan. 4, 2009 oh hell yeah. I'll actually talk to my child if they want to do something, not just automatically say "your only 16 you dont need to go to the movies with your friends!!1" but yah =/ -- Posted by Anonymous at 7:55 am on Jan. 4, 2009 when the only person that can make you feel better is the one that is killing you inside? -- Posted by Sanctum at 7:55 am on Jan. 4, 2009 control your feelings -- Posted by Sanctum at 7:55 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Quote: from 10013028 at 3:40 pm on July 14, 2008 well yea, no one likes to get in a fight with there friends No on occasion I like to get into debates with them, I love to argue. But not with her it just feels too weird. -- Posted by stuffydays at 7:55 am on Jan. 4, 2009 distance yourself as much as possible and find other things to do/ think about -- Posted by stuffydays at 7:55 am on Jan. 4, 2009 yes, me and my boyfriend/best friend Shaun argue all of the time over the dumbest shit and then we both end up crying and apologizing about 20 minutes later! -- Posted by MystiqueBeauty16 at 7:56 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Yes but we hardly ever argue -- Posted by MystiqueBeauty16 at 7:56 am on Jan. 4, 2009 You detach yourself from that person, because if they really make you feel better you wouldn't feel like you were dying. -- Posted by bosss at 7:56 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Yeah, my boyfriend... -- Posted by bosss at 7:56 am on Jan. 4, 2009 waaaaait -- Posted by HeartofJuyoMk2 at 7:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 I want one of each. I don't care which one comes first. -- Posted by HeartofJuyoMk2 at 7:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 "learn, you must, to let go of those you hold dear." -Yoda -- Posted by Amazingness99 at 7:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Quote: from MystiqueBeauty16 at 10:56 am on Jan. 4, 2009 You detach yourself from that person, because if they really make you feel better you wouldn't feel like you were dying. This, exactly. -- Posted by Amazingness99 at 7:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 i want two girls, and 1 one boy. the boy i wuld name Seth and the girls Rosalina (or Rose for short) and Stella. Seth and stella are twinsss. -- Posted by sadnessness at 8:01 am on Jan. 4, 2009 cry, listen to some sad music and find someone to talk to about it who will listen and be supportive -- Posted by sadnessness at 8:01 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Wanted a boy and GOT a boy so i lucked out -- Posted by katjassidekick at 8:05 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Find reasons to hate them. In the end, all you feel is anger and anger rules. -- Posted by katjassidekick at 8:05 am on Jan. 4, 2009 I agree, I think it would be helpful :) I've been bullied personally and I'm sure there are a fair few people on here who are in similar situations. So it might be good for people to know that. -- Posted by Rainbow Blight at 9:59 am on Jan. 4, 2009 smiles cuddles like kind of playing around and joking nudging n stuff -- Posted by Rainbow Blight at 9:59 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Cut them off.  If they're abusive and put you down all the time but still love them, never speak to them again.  That's what I'm doing.  Also, finding reasons to hate them is a great way to get over it, like katjassidekick said.  You'll be surprised how many flaws your beloved has.  If you can't make yourself hate them, try to push them away by being equally abusive to them; they'll go away on their own and you'll find a new reason not to like them!