-- Posted by Ruffington Sanchez at 7:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 like if you come across an attractive stranger, how would you get to know them anyway without asking them out first? -- Posted by MystiqueBeauty16 at 7:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Talking to them? -- Posted by HeartofJuyoMk2 at 7:58 am on Jan. 4, 2009 i dont see a problem, as a matter of fact, it hurts less when you break up! -- Posted by J BiGGZ at 7:59 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Ask her a dumb question. For Example: "Do you know what day is today"? And start a conversation like that. -- Posted by sadnessness at 7:59 am on Jan. 4, 2009 buy them a drink, ask them out for lunch or aa coffee (dinner is too serious if you arent already dating) and get to know them a bit before asking them out -- Posted by txbball08 at 8:00 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Nothing wrong with it at all.  The worst thing they could do is turn you down. -- Posted by stuffydays at 8:00 am on Jan. 4, 2009 nothing i guess it's just a bigger risk then getting to know them, making them comfortable first. -- Posted by Sanctum at 8:00 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Quote: from txbball08 at 8:00 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Nothing wrong with it at all. The worst thing they could do is turn you down. agreed -- Posted by Cyanotype at 8:01 am on Jan. 4, 2009 You just don't know what you could be getting into... -- Posted by Hggh7 at 8:06 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Quote: from J BIGGZ at 9:59 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Ask her a dumb question. For Example: "Do you know what day is today"? And start a conversation like that. And appear dumb yourself? Quote: from txbball08 at 10:00 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Nothing wrong with it at all. The worst thing they could do is turn you down. Being turned down is worse than not asking. -- Posted by Aqueous at 8:09 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Isn't the whole purpose of going out with someone to get to know them? -- Posted by Ruffington Sanchez at 8:29 am on Jan. 4, 2009 Quote: from sadnessness at 7:59 am on Jan. 4, 2009 buy them a drink, ask them out for lunch or aa coffee (dinner is too serious if you arent already dating) and get to know them a bit before asking them out major confusion alert! how do you ask someone out before you ask them out?