-- Posted by Raymond at 1:02 pm on Jan. 4, 2009 Aside from the legal question, isn't it an advantage to have some slightly older person, or maybe considerably older, give you your first sexual instruction and practice? It gives you reliable information instead of myths and also some self confidence. My older brother arranged that for me and I still am grateful for it. When my first personal girl friend experience occurred we both were able to enjoy it a lot more than if it had just been my first experimentation.     In retrospect, which would you prefer, instruction or experimentation? -- Posted by ieshiachantel at 1:03 pm on Jan. 4, 2009 maybe -- Posted by WickedWiccan at 1:05 pm on Jan. 4, 2009 Maybe. As long as they don't have to touch me to show me, lol. -- Posted by Kaijuu at 1:06 pm on Jan. 4, 2009 yes -- Posted by Al Legator at 1:07 pm on Jan. 4, 2009 Information, yes. Hands on "instruction"...not acceptable. -- Posted by Macdaddy16 at 1:44 pm on Jan. 4, 2009 thats a great idea. but i dont have an older brother :( i always wished i did :P -- Posted by underoosboy at 2:03 pm on Jan. 4, 2009 how did ur bro "arrange" for that?    is there a kinds sylvan learning centers for sex ed? -- Posted by Johnboysfun at 3:28 pm on Jan. 4, 2009   In retrospect, which would you prefer, instruction or experimentation?     I was afraid to try and have sex with a girl because I didn't want to look inadequate. When  I was almost 14 a girl asked me right out if I had ever had sex or been naked with a girl and after a few minutes of blushing I admitted that I hadn't. She was 15, almost 16, and just took me by the hand and led me to the workshop behind the garage, took off my and her clothes and talked and showed me through foreplay and sex She had to put my penis in her vagina for me the first time. After several times I got over my nervousness. I vote for hands on instruction and get it all over with. -- Posted by Lillylove at 10:24 am on Jan. 5, 2009 I suppose for boys it's better to have some hands on instruction. In my case my first was with an experienced slightly older boy who was proud to tell and show me all about it. I'd really not want my first time  to be with a bumbling virgin. -- Posted by BMFM at 10:26 am on Jan. 5, 2009 lol my boyfriend learned a bout sex from the lady that lived next door to him lol he was 15 she was 36... im grateful cuz she taught him how to please a women -- Posted by wickedlickersc at 8:52 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 i think its a very good idea to have someone oler/more experienced to teach you. Some african cultures actually practice this. Girls over 10 are allowed to participate in the "training"... -- Posted by biSEXual at 9:49 am on Jan. 6, 2009 uhmm NO that is freaky. Just watch porn lol -- Posted by Jaguar at 10:13 am on Jan. 6, 2009 I don't think it's a bad idea. My first gf was older than me and I'm grateful for what she did for me. 13 & 16 incidentally. -- Posted by theboxman at 12:50 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 half the fun is figuring it all out.