-- Posted by sweetness14 at 6:52 pm on Jan. 4, 2009 me and this guy had this thing for each other. some called it love i called it using. we werent dating but it felt like it. he would hold my waist, kiss me all the time. we had our differences tho. i dont date players and he was one. he dosent date chicks like me. on xmas eve ppl were like " ohhh he loves you, hes so gonna ask u out tomorro..." and stuff like that. on xmas he told me "i dont love u anymore" it ruined xmas. it ruined half the year for me. i told my bff the story and she promised me that she would never like him or touch him cuz he dropped me and broke me. today she told me she made out with him got all freaky in da sheets wiith him. that she was half tipsy and just wanted some love cuz she got played by some guy and the one she loved is in mexico. she lied to me, nearly ended our friendship over some guy. idk wat to do. do i forgive her? -- Posted by captain planet at 6:52 pm on Jan. 4, 2009 no -- Posted by ElizabethCox at 6:53 pm on Jan. 4, 2009 Yes. -- Posted by ElizabethCox at 6:55 pm on Jan. 4, 2009 You should because you are friends. -- Posted by OllyNZ at 6:55 pm on Jan. 4, 2009 Ah hes a player and must be good with girls, remember your friend was half tipsy and she fell for the same trap you did, forgive.. we all make mistakes from time to time -- Posted by SuccessfulFailure at 6:59 pm on Jan. 4, 2009 Unfortunately I can't tell you what to do here, nor could anyone else.  This is a decision that you need to make on your own.  No, it's not going to be an easy decision to make because you do have a right to be hurt about what happened.  I'm sure we've all been hurt one way or another in the past so most people could definitely sympathize or at least empathize with you. Think about the situation logically and rationally.  You're hurt because your friend broke a promise to you, right?  Have you spoken to your friend and informed her that she did hurt you - despite how obvious you feel that is?  I would definitely recommend that you try talking to your friend about it before you make any rash decisions.  I think that's the best way to go from here. After the conversation with your friend, consider all that was said throughout the conversation and think about it.  Is your friend sorry for her behavior?  Is she planning on doing it again?  Does she care that you're hurt?  These are all aspects of the situation that prevents the situation from being merely black and white.  The situation is complex and could go a number of different ways.  Talk to your friend about it and take it from there. Good luck and take care of yourself. -- Posted by Slipknot2 at 2:32 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 no thats horrible