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-- Posted by greynard at 10:13 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

my birthday

I feel crappy.....I didn't say a word to him. But he has been sick all weekend long. So I don't know whether to let it pass or not. Sigh.

What do you think?


-- Posted by reev at 10:13 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

how long have you been together?


-- Posted by Everlongx at 10:13 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

pretend to forget his when it comes around.
call it even.


-- Posted by ChemicEmotions at 10:13 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

If he never remembers, keep it inside then let it all out when you're having a fight that has nothing to do with your birthday.

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-- Posted by blufindr at 10:13 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

He's been sick.

Cut him some slack.


-- Posted by greynard at 10:14 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

we've been together 8 months


-- Posted by EarthEmpire at 10:14 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

What's the big deal? He was sick, just get over it.


-- Posted by reev at 10:14 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

Quote: from greynard at 12:14 am on Jan. 5, 2009


we've been together 8 months

8 months and he forgot your birthday? :\ he better be really sick.


-- Posted by MischaELLE at 10:16 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

maybe casually bring it up?

you dont have to be mad because he was sick but you have a right to be sad.


-- Posted by greynard at 10:16 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

im not sure how sick he was. He didn't call all weekend. Stayed home and played video games. Said it was the flu.


-- Posted by whips handcuffs at 10:16 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

Quote: from EarthEmpire at 10:14 pm on Jan. 4, 2009


What's the big deal? He was sick, just get over it.

well some girls think their boyfriends should remember things like this? i doubt he was deathly ill.


-- Posted by greynard at 10:16 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

well yea i'm not angry, just sad and depressed.


-- Posted by sicosys at 10:17 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

Tell him your not mad, ur just disappointed!


-- Posted by CaptainxPlanet at 10:18 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

Dont be mad, move on, not the end of the world,, move on and have a great relationship. xD


-- Posted by dreamweaver at 10:18 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

Wait til he realizes what he's forgot. If you're sick that long, you wouldn't believe how much crap you forget. I've been sick the last few days and I forget what day it is half the time due to all the sleeping I've been doing.


-- Posted by Trendz at 10:19 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

Quote: from ChemicEmotions at 1:13 am on Jan. 5, 2009


If he never remembers, keep it inside then let it all out when you're having a fight that has nothing to do with your birthday.

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This


-- Posted by bass09 at 10:21 pm on Jan. 4, 2009

he was sick give him a break


-- Posted by chikichicky at 11:41 am on Jan. 5, 2009

Umm... I wouldn't listen to the whole "getting even" or "taking it out on him" suggestions. He was sick and missed your birthday. So what? Is there any reason why you can't bring it up and then celebrate it with him later in the week? It's just another day of the year and there's plenty of birthdays in the future.


-- Posted by Hexer at 4:11 pm on Jan. 5, 2009

Quote: from blufindr at 6:13 am on Jan. 5, 2009


He's been sick.

Cut him some slack.


That is what i'd say. I know 8 months is quite some time, but some people are just horribly forgetful. If it really bothers you, drop hints next year :)


-- Posted by 000000 at 5:09 pm on Jan. 5, 2009

Just tell him "you forgot my birthday" and then it'll be fine.


-- Posted by SplitPersonality at 7:16 pm on Jan. 5, 2009

Don't let it get to you. If he truly and honestly was sick, then you probably should give him a break. Then again, if I were sick and I was with someone that I'm in a relationship with, I most definitely wouldn't forget it at all. I would look forward to that birthday.

Maybe talk to him and ask if there's anything else he has in mind.

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FUCK YOU. HE PROBABLY DOESNT GIVE A SHIT. YOURE PROBABLY A WORTHLESS PIECE OF CRAP GIRLFRIEND ANYWAYS.


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