-- Posted by JEESSICCAAAxx at 8:42 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Hello I havent posted in a while. I was sixteen and pregnant. I am now seventeen and a mom. My son Anthony Ryan is my world. He is so beautiful and perfect. My boyfriend, my son, and me are one happy family. It is a dream come true. Everything happens for a reason. :) -- Posted by XCyanideXLipsX at 8:42 am on Jan. 6, 2009 lucky... -- Posted by samantha89 at 8:42 am on Jan. 6, 2009 well congratulations =] -- Posted by Tubbz at 8:43 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Well done -- Posted by roflfuckyou at 8:43 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Are you going to get married or just be boyfriend and girlfriend with a kid? -- Posted by biSEXual at 8:43 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Congratulations! and welcome to the world of teenage moms!!! -- Posted by TOBYMAC44 at 8:43 am on Jan. 6, 2009 i can't wait to have what you have. I am so exsited for you!!! -- Posted by Lady Catastrophic at 8:45 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from roflfuckyou at 9:43 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Are you going to get married or just be boyfriend and girlfriend with a kid? Does it really matter? Since when do you have to be married to have a kid together? Congrats! That is fantastic to hear how things work out for people :> I wish your family the best. My baby will be coming this summer :) -- Posted by JEESSICCAAAxx at 8:46 am on Jan. 6, 2009 We plan on getting married but I am still young and have so much stress and no free time right now to plan a wedding so we will wait until we are more all settled. Having a young baby is a full time job and I want to plan a beautiful wedding. So I know we will have a long engagment (hasnt happened yet) and once we are both done college and are settled we can have the wedding of our dreams. We want to be married but there is no huge rush because we already have that commitment to eachother its just a matter of when its official and we can celebrate our love. -- Posted by roflfuckyou at 8:47 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from xsharpi at 3:45 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from roflfuckyou at 9:43 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Are you going to get married or just be boyfriend and girlfriend with a kid? Does it really matter? Since when do you have to be married to have a kid together? Congrats! That is fantastic to hear how things work out for people :> I wish your family the best. My baby will be coming this summer :) Lool no need to get sensitive because you're having a baby too. It was just a question if they are going to get married or not. -- Posted by Drunkwhore at 8:47 am on Jan. 6, 2009 lucky I'm holding my baby brother mt little sister was pushing on his chest and want to slap her we told her 100000000 times to stop now he is crying it is just one big headache there dad needs to step up to the plat and be a dad and not a lazy fuck that he is omfg he had the sex to have him he needs to be the dad not me ii didn't fuck my mom he did fuck fuck fuck -- Posted by Lady Catastrophic at 8:49 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from roflfuckyou at 9:47 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Lool no need to get sensitive because you're having a baby too. It was just a question if they are going to get married or not. I wasn't aware my response seemed sensitive, I know what you were asking it is just a question that I hear all the time... even before I was pregnant. It is just the end of the question that bothered me... or just be boyfriend and girlfriend with a kid? Seems a bit rude. -- Posted by JEESSICCAAAxx at 8:50 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Congratulations to all those who said they are expecting. Some advice from me: be educated on every possible option that can happen with your birth experience. I had an emergency csection and complications (only with me, Anthony is perfect) and it can be scary if you aren't prepared. You can try to prepare to be a new mother but its one of those things you can ready everything in the world but once you experience it its different. You can only prepare to a certain extent. I am still young I don't live with my bf yet and I have full custody (meaning the baby lives with me) because he is in college. Keep your head up, hang on, and remember its all about your baby. Everything happens for a reason and it will all work out even if u dont think so. Being a mother is the most incredible feeling in the world. Its such a blessingg! -- Posted by Lady Catastrophic at 8:51 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from JEESSICCAAAxx at 9:46 am on Jan. 6, 2009 We plan on getting married but I am still young and have so much stress and no free time right now to plan a wedding so we will wait until we are more all settled. Having a young baby is a full time job and I want to plan a beautiful wedding. So I know we will have a long engagment (hasnt happened yet) and once we are both done college and are settled we can have the wedding of our dreams. We want to be married but there is no huge rush because we already have that commitment to eachother its just a matter of when its official and we can celebrate our love. Hah I have the same view as you do. Everyone on my boyfriends side of the family is like "You guys should get married.... it will bring the two families together." And I am just like wtf? Shouldn't a new person being brought in the world bring our two families together? -- Posted by roflfuckyou at 8:53 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from xsharpi at 3:49 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from roflfuckyou at 9:47 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Lool no need to get sensitive because you're having a baby too. It was just a question if they are going to get married or not. I wasn't aware my response seemed sensitive, I know what you were asking it is just a question that I hear all the time... even before I was pregnant. It is just the end of the question that bothered me... or just be boyfriend and girlfriend with a kid? Seems a bit rude. I never said it or intended it in a rude way. I was simply stating their situation. Not my fault if their situation came across as bad. I know many people with kids and they are under 18 and single. I have nothing against them. -- Posted by JEESSICCAAAxx at 8:55 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Our families are so together. Both of our families are now one big family. It is a dream come true. We dont need a ring and a ceremony to verify our love. My life may seem great but it is hard and everyone needs support. I am going through a lot, going back to high school to finish my junior year, start college early, carry a parttime job, and raise a son. Its hard but anyone can do anything they set there mind to. My son is worth everything I have. -- Posted by Points at 9:03 am on Jan. 6, 2009 I remember you. Congratulations. Your baby is very lucky. -- Posted by dunebug at 9:10 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Congrats :-D I'm glad to hear that things are going well! I like your son's name. -- Posted by carbonara at 11:28 am on Jan. 6, 2009 That's really lovely to hear. Congratulations. -- Posted by Chiefette at 11:30 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Don't rush an engagment or a marriage.  Having a baby together is stressful enough, there is no need to rush.  As long as he is there for you that is all that matters.  You can be a family without being married, and considering you are only 17 it is a good thing to keep it that way.  I wish you luck too.  Your child is lucky to have been born to young parents that actually stay together. -- Posted by DADDYS LITTLE GIRL at 1:10 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Congrats on the baby,i really like his name! and best of luck to your new family -- Posted by Shogun villimax at 3:00 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from JEESSICCAAAxx at 8:42 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Hello I havent posted in a while. I was sixteen and pregnant. I am now seventeen and a mom. My son Anthony Ryan is my world. He is so beautiful and perfect. My boyfriend, my son, and me are one happy family. It is a dream come true. Everything happens for a reason. :) And when is the wedding? -- Posted by t3nn1simfs at 3:48 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Congratulations! how old is he?? I just had a baby girl who's 2 1/2 weeks old but I'm eighteen. Its so great that you have ur boyfriend helping u out! Mine (the father) passed away before Alexis was born but I like to think hes helping me out too :) and his parents have been GREAT lol Its amazing what you can do with a little love, support and that big toothless grin smiling up at u isn't it!! :) Well good luck and have fun!