-- Posted by cutieelise at 1:50 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 my best mate sarah has this bf sam well he stops her seeing us for no reason,iv tryed talking to her buit she wont listen.i think sam cheating on sarah. hes been acting very strange,sarah rang me and told me that her bf sam rang this girl up saying hes got a free flat does she wont to come over cause him and sarah broke up when they havent.and sarah still with him.i dunno what todo anymore i am looseing my best m8 and she wont listen to me or anyone else -- Posted by abbigayle303 at 1:51 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 ok -- Posted by Pisciculus at 1:52 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 if she wont listen to you then she is going to have to figure out on her own that he is cheating.  You have said what you can to her, let her figure it out and dont ever say "i told you so...." -- Posted by SpasticTurnip at 1:52 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 next time spell check ;D he's probably cheating on her then. how are you losing your best mate like ? -- Posted by emmywashere3849 at 1:52 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 let her figure it out. -- Posted by callie kush at 1:55 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 it's not really up to you. everyone makes mistakes but you need to be there for her when she realizes whats going on. -- Posted by carr1620 at 1:59 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Your a friend and it depends how good of friends are you. -- Posted by HiggledyPiggledy at 2:29 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 I'd let her blow hewrself out, see what happens later.