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-- Posted by Skifox at 3:39 pm on Jan. 6, 2009

This guy. Who is really sweet, but no one really likes him, and he's a little bit irritating, and a little bit creepy, and I am not physically atrracted to in any way, shape or form likes me.
And I feel like a bitch, but basically, I really want him to NOT like me.
Anything I can do that will make him not like me, that won't involve:
becoming a lesbian
saying I'm taken
being really mean to him
changing my personality completely
completely ignoring him.

I guess I just have to try and not send any signals that might make him think I like him, I really don't want him asking me out, as arrogant as that sounds   And generally talk to him less, don't initiate conversations, short simple answers, but not being rude.
Got it


-- Posted by Light Assassin at 3:40 pm on Jan. 6, 2009

tell him


-- Posted by lmc11591 at 3:40 pm on Jan. 6, 2009

just tell him he's a really good friend. and then confide in him about your crushes. act oblivious.


-- Posted by Public Enemy 69 at 3:42 pm on Jan. 6, 2009

Just tell you dont like him? Easier than using all your energy trying to send out "signals".


-- Posted by joker678 at 3:42 pm on Jan. 6, 2009

just tell him!


-- Posted by Perfect Mismatch at 3:43 pm on Jan. 6, 2009

Quote: from lmc11591 at 3:40 pm on Jan. 6, 2009


just tell him he's a really good friend. and then confide in him about your crushes. act oblivious.


This is a fantastic idea.


-- Posted by OllyNZ at 3:45 pm on Jan. 6, 2009

Just say to him you dont have feelings for him and would appreciate it if he would leave you alone


-- Posted by Natsy at 3:45 pm on Jan. 6, 2009

be nice, just say that you're glad that you're such good FRIENDS and how you've never had such a good FRIEND as him and that you're glad of the fact that you aren't attracted to each other and are SUCH good FRIENDS.


-- Posted by britanylynn at 3:46 pm on Jan. 6, 2009

Tell him that you just have a friend vibe going on so your not intrested in him as anything more. U cant help how you feel.


-- Posted by lovelyshadows19 at 3:47 pm on Jan. 6, 2009

I was just about to ask about something like this. lol

Quote: from lmc11591 at 6:40 pm on Jan. 6, 2009


just tell him he's a really good friend. and then confide in him about your crushes. act oblivious.

I think this is a really good one.  


-- Posted by lonewolf03 at 3:49 pm on Jan. 6, 2009

Quote: from Natsy at 3:45 pm on Jan. 6, 2009


be nice, just say that you're glad that you're such good FRIENDS and how you've never had such a good FRIEND as him and that you're glad of the fact that you aren't attracted to each other and are SUCH good FRIENDS.

that made me giggle.


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