-- Posted by WRXSTI at 5:53 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 I think this girl at work kinda likes me but I really like her. So last sunday I got her number and asked if she wanted to go to the mall this week. Anyway, I called her today and asked if she wanted to go to the mall tomorrow which is her only day off. And she said she can't because she has something going on and said sorry. I'll see her thursday and should I joke with her about it and plan to do something this weekend? If so, what? -- Posted by blitzerdog at 5:54 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Just keep trying until she says something or gives you other signals. It could just be she had something planned for tomorrow. -- Posted by Precarious at 5:55 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 dont be pushy now -- Posted by Slayerbabe92 at 5:55 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 seriously just be yourself and if she likes you great but if she ends up not, just be a friend. -- Posted by MixedDelight at 5:55 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Do something you'll both enjoy. A common interest. If you both like movies, do that. Although that's really date-ish. Are you asking her out as friends, or are you hoping to date her? -- Posted by blitzerdog at 5:55 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from myhairitsnice at 5:55 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 dont be pushy now If you dont be pushy you wont end up getting her. Trust me, never wait! Just don't be too stalkerish but be pushy. If you wait like most guys end up doing, you'll lose her! -- Posted by xPicturesOfYou3 at 5:57 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Going to the mall is kind of weird unless you're good friends.  Maybe something competitive like bowling or mini golf, something sporty that you can both do together, but you guys wont be pressured at all. -- Posted by Under oath at 5:57 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from myhairitsnice at 6:55 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 dont be pushy now this girls are delicate things they love to be loved and not to be pressured it to things they are different they meed lots of love idk im just being weird today -- Posted by WRXSTI at 6:01 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 alright me and a big group of friends were going to go midnight bowling on saturday should I call her a day before and ask?