-- Posted by Anonymous at 6:31 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 So yesterday someone of the past just randomly came to my house. He and I have a lot of history, never went out, but we should have (lost virginity to each other freshman year) and we've known each other since kindergarten we're neighbors. We just have a lot of history. Well, about a year ago we got into a huge argument and stopped talking to each other since. Well yesterday, randomly (he lives down the street) came to my house to "use my printer because he really needed to print something and his ran out of ink" so I let him in. I led him to my room, asked him if he wanted something to drink, and when I came back in with a water bottle, he just launched at me and we started making out, which eventually led to us having sex. It was extremely passionate, and I have gone from 'completely over him' to back where I was a year ago. The thing is, is that he has a girlfriend.I fucked someone elses boyfriend and I feel disgusting. I would have never though I could do that to someone. It was wrong, and I know this, but it was completely spare(spur?) of the moment and now he's calling me all the time, and I'm just scared she will find out. I don't know where that left us, or what will happen, but I'm not interested in breaking anyones heart, or being part of it...what the hell do I do? -- Posted by TeaPotHead at 6:34 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 tell him he's with you or he's not, no other girls, no games, no more of this leading you on -- Posted by sicosys at 6:34 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 u tap that shit till his nnuts are raisins! lol -- Posted by xixthinkxixlikexyouu at 6:34 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 I'm in the same situation. Except I haven't had sex with him yet:p -- Posted by OllyNZ at 6:34 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 It was him who started it, you dont need to do anything, if you dont want to have a relationship with him just ignore him again -- Posted by ChemicEmotions at 6:34 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Tell him you won't make any contact unless he severs the ties between his current boyfriend and himself. Other than that, you can't do anything. You could possibly tell the girlfriend that he's a backstabbing bastard. Another thing, if he does it with you and cheats on another girl, what makes you think he won't do the same to you? -- Posted by Vanillaicegirl2003 at 6:34 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 I think he needs to be honest with his girlfriend first. Does he still love or like you? -- Posted by browneyesbecca12 at 6:35 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from TeaPotHead at 6:34 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 tell him he's with you or he's not, no other girls, no games, no more of this leading you on Exactly -- Posted by xPicturesOfYou3 at 6:36 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Well if you really want to be with this guy, you should tell him to break up with his girlfriend, because you dont just want to be his fuck buddy. You probably want a steady relationship if you're going to have sex with him.  Everyone makes mistakes, so you shouldn't feel guilty about fucking someone else's boyfriend. If anything it's as much his fault as yours.  The problem you have is that you don't want to break people's hearts, but the situation calls for it so you really should just get it over with. -- Posted by LucidAssassin at 6:51 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from browneyesbecca12 at 6:35 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from TeaPotHead at 6:34 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 tell him he's with you or he's not, no other girls, no games, no more of this leading you on Exactly i agree -- Posted by kissmeintherain91 at 6:54 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Tell her Omg tell her Imagine if it was you -- Posted by GeneCosta at 10:00 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 You're both in the wrong, and you should confront him and demand that he tell her. If he doesn't, you should. Cheating annoys the fuck out of me.