-- Posted by Anonymous at 8:21 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 I'm a girl btw... my best friend who is a guy got his gf pregnant and they don't even care!!! He is gunna find out if they are having boy are girl tomorrow and he doesn't care!!!! I had a miscarriage and i wanted me baby so bad his gf would only be 3 or 4 weeks less than me. how is it that someone who doesn't want their kid get to have it and then others want one so bad and they die     It's just not right. its not fair i should be the one getting to pick out pink or blue clothes. why did i have to loose my baby       -- Posted by Joke at 8:22 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 idk. but most guys. like me. are like that. -- Posted by CuteKittenofDoom at 8:22 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 ...sorry. -- Posted by OllyNZ at 8:22 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 aww, keep trying, you will have 1 when your ready -- Posted by addicted to girls at 8:22 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 I'm sorry to hear that -- Posted by Anonymous at 8:23 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from Joke at 11:22 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 idk. but most guys. like me. are like that. his gf doesn't really want it either -- Posted by sammiroo at 8:24 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Life isn't fair. Just keep trying. -- Posted by latric3 at 8:25 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 They do care, if they're not aborting it... But yeah that sucks, I guess it's just not the right time in your life to have one, or maybe it was with the wrong person. Everything happens for a reason. When you do have one I'm sure you'll be with the real love of your life and more finnancially stable. -- Posted by the seer at 8:25 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 im sorry i hope things work out for you. -- Posted by dunebug at 8:44 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 Quote: from latric3 at 8:25 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 They do care, if they're not aborting it... But yeah that sucks, I guess it's just not the right time in your life to have one, or maybe it was with the wrong person. Everything happens for a reason. When you do have one I'm sure you'll be with the real love of your life and more finnancially stable. Well said.   -- Posted by Helios at 9:02 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 I hate to say it but sometimes life is not fair. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and this is a perfect example of that here. You are young, when you are older you can try again and then you'll be the one picking out the clothes. -- Posted by Chiefette at 5:22 am on Jan. 7, 2009 If they are not aborting the child, they do care.  They may not be extrenally happy, but it doesn't mean that they do not want their baby.  Sometimes things don't work out.  This obviously wasn't the right time for you to have a baby.   -- Posted by MissPrixy07 at 11:52 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Aw, hunnie! It's all for the best. You can have another baby. I know that's not what you want to hear, but you have to know it. My mom had two miscarriages before having my oldest sister, and your life will get better! Shit happens, and I know it's terrible. Good luck to you, and I'm sure someday you'll make a perfect mommy because I can tell you'll love your child so much. -- Posted by Anonymous at 12:00 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from MissPrixy07 at 2:52 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Aw, hunnie! It's all for the best. You can have another baby. I know that's not what you want to hear, but you have to know it. My mom had two miscarriages before having my oldest sister, and your life will get better! Shit happens, and I know it's terrible. Good luck to you, and I'm sure someday you'll make a perfect mommy because I can tell you'll love your child so much.   thank you so much i really needed to here that. you were the most helpful person to reply