-- Posted by justaguy89 at 12:27 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Hey. Its a kinda complicated story. But basically me and my ex broke up four weeks ago because of her saying she wants a break and need time to herself also he parents waned us to, which is bs. We went out for almost 11 months. She says she wdoesnt want a relationship right now but she knows that she wants to get back toether when shes ready to be in one. She said she promises she will come back to me and to trust her. I want to trust her, but somehow something just tells me its a lie, but i always thing neative when it comes to things like this. I literally think about her every morning when i wake up, then durin the day a few times, then at night i fall asleep thinking about her. i also usually have a dream about her every night. some are good and some are bad. I want to get back together more than anything. I really am lost on what i am doin. I hate being alone, but her and a very few friends are the only people i talk to... I have been keepin her off my mind with playin a bunch of games. EVERYTHING reminds me of her tho. I hate and love it atthe same time. What should i do? i want to be in a relationship so badly but there are just no options for me now. Any thoughts? -- Posted by Peppermintxo at 12:29 am on Jan. 7, 2009 If there are no options and you have to wait for her, just wait. Rushing her will kill your chances. Just respect her request for a 'break' and be good to her. Hopefully, she'll come back. If she doesn't, move on to an honest, better person. Good luck! -- Posted by ocho cinco at 12:29 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from justaguy89 at 12:27 am on Jan. 7, 2009 I literally think about her every morning when i wake up, then durin the day a few times, then at night i fall asleep thinking about her. i also usually have a dream about her every night. some are good and some are bad. I want to get back together more than anything. I really am lost on what i am doin. I hate being alone, I have been keepin her off my mind with playin a bunch of games. EVERYTHING reminds me of her tho. I hate and love it atthe same time. I can see why she doesn't want to be with you anymore. -- Posted by foambuddy at 12:29 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Well most people tend to jump into another relationship with someone else but honestly that isn't great at all for the fact that you are trying to forget someone.. I would say well wait... I mean I would if I really loved this person I would wait till you really can't anymore... -- Posted by blufindr at 12:29 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Stop wanting to be in a relationship for the wrong reasons. -- Posted by DopeSickGirl at 12:30 am on Jan. 7, 2009 you arent happy. just comfortable. youll find the right one :) -- Posted by Neodymie at 12:31 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Just give it some time. It will pass and you'll be fine again. 11 months is a lot of time, you can't just expect to forget about her over night. As far as getting back together with her, talk to her about it. What's the worst that could happen. You already broke up.