-- Posted by lestat1990 at 12:38 am on Jan. 7, 2009 how do you tell the difference of loving your best friend because she's your best friend or loving her because you should be with her? -- Posted by Peppermintxo at 12:40 am on Jan. 7, 2009 You want to talk to her all the time, you think about her constantly, you just want to reach out and hug/kiss her when she's simply being herself. I think it's super when best friends date, so I think you should be with her. -- Posted by ocho cinco at 12:41 am on Jan. 7, 2009 when you want to be inside her -- Posted by pegger21 at 12:41 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from ocho cinco at 2:41 am on Jan. 7, 2009 when you want to be inside her -- Posted by nack at 12:42 am on Jan. 7, 2009 u prolly became best friends with her bcuz u had a crush on her right? -- Posted by lestat1990 at 12:49 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from nack at 12:42 am on Jan. 7, 2009 u prolly became best friends with her bcuz u had a crush on her right? *smiles. i might have found her attractive and been drawn to her. -- Posted by nack at 12:51 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from lestat1990 at 12:49 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from nack at 12:42 am on Jan. 7, 2009 u prolly became best friends with her bcuz u had a crush on her right? *smiles. i might have found her attractive and been drawn to her. then there is your answer. -- Posted by lestat1990 at 12:52 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from nack at 12:51 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from lestat1990 at 12:49 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from nack at 12:42 am on Jan. 7, 2009 u prolly became best friends with her bcuz u had a crush on her right?    *smiles. i might have found her attractive and been drawn to her.   then there is your answer. are you saying you can't love a friend you find attractive without it meaning you want to date her? -- Posted by lyssabear at 12:57 am on Jan. 7, 2009 I went through this before. Mainly my mom told be that they're your best friend. They have a lot in common with you and you click so easily and feel so comfortable around them. And usually my friends that are girls I find attractive, not in a bi/les way but in a nice, friendly way. And so maybe your just starting to notice how you feel for her as a best friend. But you could always still like her. Message me if you need to. :] -- Posted by LoveKay at 1:00 am on Jan. 7, 2009 I would say you can tell the difference when you start having sexual urges toward that person... such as the urge to kiss, or undress with your eyes.