-- Posted by cedesbenz at 7:08 am on Jan. 7, 2009 It seems everytime you think you found the right person it seems  they always find a way to hurt you.. im tired of feeling hurt and betrayed by someone. i think being in a relationship that you are giving a 100% in and the other person you think is doing the same is just plotting behind your back to break your heart.  I starting to think that being in a relationship is a waste time, like i should just start talking to different people and not get tied down to one person. Should I? -- Posted by La Motta at 7:08 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Yeah free your mind! -- Posted by FightingForTheGood at 7:09 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Why not? -- Posted by FightingForTheGood at 7:09 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from LaMotta at 7:08 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Yeah free your mind! Freeing the mind is a good idea. -- Posted by atomictastic at 7:09 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Just be careful who you date. But yeah. -- Posted by FightingForTheGood at 7:10 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Rawkstar at 7:09 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Just be careful who you date.   But yeah. Some people are just assholes. -- Posted by fRaNbAiLeY at 7:10 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Well yeah, you should never concentrate all your efforts on just one person until you're fully secure in that relationship. I'm sorry you got hurt though. I once read this proverb which I definitely agree with, it's: "love is giving someone the chance to destroy you and trusting them not to" so if you can't trust that person, try and avoiding making yourself vulnerable. -- Posted by FightingForTheGood at 7:11 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from fRaNbAiLeY at 7:10 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Well yeah, you should never concentrate all your efforts on just one person until you're fully secure in that relationship. I'm sorry you got hurt though. I once read this proverb which I definitely agree with, it's: "love is giving someone the chance to destroy you and trusting them not to" so if you can't trust that person, try and avoiding making yourself vulnerable. Why concentrate on one when there are many, know what I mean? -- Posted by cedesbenz at 7:17 am on Jan. 7, 2009 i kno but with me if im feeling someone i want to go and see what i can make with that person. and my heart cant take nomore hurt.. -- Posted by snowcone200 at 7:31 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Well then stop dating for a while plzin and simple. You aren't the first or last person to be hurt. Go ahead risk being alone forever because your scared. Rather then learn how relationship shud be -- Posted by FightingForTheGood at 7:33 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from snowcone200 at 7:31 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Well then stop dating for a while plzin and simple. You aren't the first or last person to be hurt. Go ahead risk being alone forever because your scared. Rather then learn how relationship shud be Good idea, give dating a break. -- Posted by FightingForTheGood at 7:33 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from cedesbenz at 7:17 am on Jan. 7, 2009 i kno but with me if im feeling someone i want to go and see what i can make with that person. and my heart cant take nomore hurt.. Why dont you just date and make no real commitment to that person? -- Posted by FightingForTheGood at 7:34 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from cedesbenz at 7:17 am on Jan. 7, 2009 i kno but with me if im feeling someone i want to go and see what i can make with that person. and my heart cant take nomore hurt.. Why dont you just date and make no real commitment to that person? -- Posted by snowcone200 at 7:41 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Now that would be pointless. Why bother dating if you don't want to be committed. -- Posted by HangEmHigh at 7:43 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Yeah, you need change. -- Posted by FightingForTheGood at 7:51 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from HangEmHigh at 7:43 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Yeah, you need change. Change is fun, think of 2008, yes you can! -- Posted by FightingForTheGood at 7:52 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from snowcone200 at 7:41 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Now that would be pointless. Why bother dating if you don't want to be committed. Maybe because you like the person but you want to be free from the commitment that makes a relationship complicated. -- Posted by snowcone200 at 7:56 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Now that is what we call friends with benefits. If you can't handle a normal relationship. Dunno how you'll handle fwb, usually the girl or guy gets attached and hurt. Just stop dating for a while. -- Posted by FightingForTheGood at 7:58 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from snowcone200 at 7:56 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Now that is what we call friends with benefits. If you can't handle a normal relationship. Dunno how you'll handle fwb, usually the girl or guy gets attached and hurt. Just stop dating for a while. I like a non-commitment relationship myself. It seems that every time I had commitments it has spoiled things. -- Posted by snowcone200 at 8:00 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Well I am talking to the topic creater.   -- Posted by FightingForTheGood at 8:01 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from snowcone200 at 8:00 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Well I am talking to the topic creater. Oh well oops! Damn Im such a attention whore.