-- Posted by RahRahReplica at 8:31 am on Jan. 7, 2009 ..ex-boyfriends who are vain, insecure, cruel, unkempt little manwhores. They just get in my way. Always trying to get my attention when my life would be SO much easier if they just buggered off!!! *curses* ARGGHHHH! -- Posted by snowcone200 at 8:32 am on Jan. 7, 2009 If you truly wanted them out your life I am sure you'd been already taken steps to do this right. -- Posted by RahRahReplica at 8:34 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Yes true. I am now ignoring him TOTALLY. Which is working quite well - if I don't look at him then he can't bother me, right? I only wish I'd done it earlier. Doesn't help that I go to BOARDING SCHOOL with him. -- Posted by kissmeintherain91 at 8:35 am on Jan. 7, 2009 I agree -- Posted by Think About It at 8:48 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Are you talking about all these immature "bad boys" that many girls go for? -- Posted by LizardKing54 at 8:52 am on Jan. 7, 2009 You don't have to be mean in order to get your point across. You simply need to be polite and firm. Tell him that you're sure he's a great guy, but you are not interested in being friends with him. Let him know that it bothers you when he follows you around. You are the only person that can put a stop to it. Confrontation can be hard, but think of it this way: Two minutes uncomfortable conversation with Dave, or untold minutes of agony while he follows you around or bugs you. You can always write an email or AIM him if you don't want to have the conversation in person. Don't giggle, flinch, or give the impression you are joking - let him know you are serious. This isn't being mean, it's being honest. Good luck. -- Posted by RahRahReplica at 9:00 am on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Think About It at 4:48 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Are you talking about all these immature "bad boys" that many girls go for? The manwhores? Yes. It's all very well whilst they love you but when they fall out of love then they just treat you like crap.