-- Posted by Anonymous at 12:37 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Im a nice girl and very classy. Im still a virgin and I have performed oral sex on two guys and have gotten fingered by three guys, two of which I gave head too and the other one to which I was with. I don't get it, the guys I gave head to, one was my boyfriend and one was a guy I have been talking to for 2 years! He told me he loved me and yeah, i actually believed it because he was always there...then he just plays me! I swear im not a hoe but guys always seem to use me! I don't go around messing with just anybody....so why is this happening to me?! I don't think im a slut, I don't give out too easily. Im respectful and genuine. =[ Im confused.... -- Posted by Light Assassin at 12:37 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 that sounds classy. -- Posted by coolenough4u at 12:38 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from noahjk at 2:37 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 that sounds classy. my first thought. -- Posted by Tubbz at 12:38 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Bad choice in guys, or you aren't very attractive. -- Posted by Lord Cat at 12:38 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Well don't go giving head and and anything sexually related to them and you won't be seen as an easy ride -- Posted by XCyanideXLipsX at 12:38 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from noahjk at 12:37 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 that sounds classy. Hehe. maybe boys seem to get the message yur easy? -- Posted by K r E s C e N d O at 12:38 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Because they think they can use you? I don't know. -- Posted by theirishbiatch at 12:38 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Maybe u need to choose ur friends better?? -- Posted by ibanez at 12:39 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 try going for the nice guys for once. ie the shy ones. lower your standards SLIGHTLY and you may see  a difference. -- Posted by superchris4000 at 12:39 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from coolenough4u at 3:38 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from noahjk at 2:37 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 that sounds classy. my first thought. Mine also -- Posted by juliahcrashbang at 12:39 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Tubbz at 3:38 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Bad choice in guys, or you aren't very attractive. that -- Posted by Soccerchik107 at 12:39 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I thought you said you were classy..? Anyways, you've just had bad luck with guys. -- Posted by blueelectricguitar at 12:39 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Maybe you're too nice -- Posted by biSEXual at 12:39 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 12:37 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 He told me he loved me and yeah, i actually believed it because ... I don't think im a slut, I don't give out too easily. have some self respect and stop sucking cock. -- Posted by Johvanni at 12:40 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 na you are just to easy....not good bad reputation......give out like a hoe and get treated like a hoe... -- Posted by SpasticTurnip at 12:40 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Lower your standards and stop thinging that you're classy and shit dear. -- Posted by kbaby22 at 12:40 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from juliahcrashbang at 12:39 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Tubbz at 3:38 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Bad choice in guys, or you aren't very attractive. that mhm -- Posted by Natsy at 12:41 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 you use the word classy... which suggests that you aren't -- Posted by DMbaby xoxo16 at 12:42 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 not very classy -- Posted by Gods Child123 at 12:42 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 12:37 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Im a nice girl and very classy. Im still a virgin and I have performed oral sex on two guys and have gotten fingered by three guys, two of which I gave head too and the other one to which I was with. I don't get it, the guys I gave head to, one was my boyfriend and one was a guy I have been talking to for 2 years! He told me he loved me and yeah, i actually believed it because he was always there...then he just plays me! I swear im not a hoe but guys always seem to use me! I don't go around messing with just anybody....so why is this happening to me?! I don't think im a slut, I don't give out too easily. Im respectful and genuine. =[ Im confused.... read what you wrote and ull find your answer!!! -- Posted by marilyns baby at 12:44 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 i don't think your a slut. men are just that way, they do what they can to get whatever they want sometimes -- Posted by Indiefreak2010 at 12:45 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 classy -- Posted by Lally at 12:47 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Higher your standards. I hope you know that they are just saying, "I love you" because they want to get into your pants. Step it up! You can do better. -- Posted by DrowningAtSea at 12:47 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 THAT'S SO FUCKING CLASSY. you're easy, stop being a slut. -- Posted by kissmeintherain91 at 12:50 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Don't do stuff -- Posted by xPicturesOfYou3 at 12:53 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Don't go out acting all sexual too fast just because you're in a relationship!  Take your time! -- Posted by theyareAs at 12:54 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Find a good guy and really connect with him on a personal level, and then maybe even then who knows? -- Posted by bkuhn at 12:59 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 i am a guy take my opinion i do not date that many people i am the date doctor i help people find someone to date  and i repair relationships. u sound like u nead one guy . love him . start out talking for like 6 months then work towrds the sex. not to much . just enough so he understands that u want to have sex and  so that he knows he has to make an effort. just . find one guy if u need help finding him give me a shout i will help u. -- Posted by RAGEMAN at 1:04 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 What is slutty about giving head to two guys and getting fingered by three? She knew one for 2 years and the other one she was dating. The 3rd we don't know anything about, but who hasn't had a one night stand? (well, nvm. I guess some amount of people here haven't had one night stands or sexual contact). Either way thats really far from slutty. And the smart people going "Ooo, that sounds classy!". Classy is sort of vague, means fashionable or elegant. I don't see what she said in the post that says she isn't classy. Do classy people not give head or get fingered? Sexual contact is a human thing, it's not "slutty" or some shit especially in this case because she didn't do it with random people. Either way your thinking of this strangely. You didn't say how your boyfriend "used" you since you guys were dating and it's implied that you are attracted to eachother enough that you both willingly engage in sexual things. As for the other two guys, don't do something sexual with somebody for the sake of romance unless you are already dating. You set yourself up for that. He can say "I loOoOoOve you baby" all he wants, but he isn't fucking dating you exclusively so what does his word matter anyways. Don't listen to everyone else. Internet isn't serious buisness. Most people here are internet fags, they judge people through screens and laugh about it because it's the internet.