-- Posted by cozysoxx at 4:15 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Well, i went to this concert not that long ago &&then i met these peopple from the concert, ive been talking to this kid who went, and i think im starting to like himm i talked to him on the phone and everythingg hes so cute hes so sweet to me But the thing is i dont know him much, but when i talk to him i feel like i like him, and he said the same thingg do you think after like we hang out alot it might blossom into something amazinggg what do you thinkk? he makes me so happy ((((: -- Posted by PrideAndJoy at 4:16 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Was this a poem or haiku or what? -- Posted by Joke at 4:16 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 yeah.. i think you should go for it :D -- Posted by libertybluejay16 at 4:16 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 yes -- Posted by Vintorez at 4:16 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 go for it -- Posted by cozysoxx at 4:17 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from PrideAndJoy at 7:16 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Was this a poem or haiku or what? maybe you should re read it.. -- Posted by smiileyyboo at 4:17 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 absolutly girl!:) -- Posted by xPicturesOfYou3 at 4:17 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 DO IT!!!!! -- Posted by PrideAndJoy at 4:18 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I think the more you get to know him, the more you'll realize he is like everybody else out there. I would suggest keeping your distance, or else you'll spoil the fantasy. -- Posted by kissmeintherain91 at 4:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Hang out w him -- Posted by sub800 at 4:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 DO. IT. GODDAMMIT. -- Posted by cozysoxx at 4:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from PrideAndJoy at 7:18 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I think the more you get to know him, the more you'll realize he is like everybody else out there. I would suggest keeping your distance, or else you'll spoil the fantasy. The more i think about this the more logical it is. Ive never thought about it like that. -- Posted by Vintorez at 4:26 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from cozysoxx at 7:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from PrideAndJoy at 7:18 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I think the more you get to know him, the more you'll realize he is like everybody else out there. I would suggest keeping your distance, or else you'll spoil the fantasy. The more i think about this the more logical it is. Ive never thought about it like that. what if he's not like everyone else, maybe he'd something special to you, and you might regret it later if you ignore him -- Posted by PrideAndJoy at 4:29 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from cozysoxx at 4:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from PrideAndJoy at 7:18 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I think the more you get to know him, the more you'll realize he is like everybody else out there. I would suggest keeping your distance, or else you'll spoil the fantasy.   The more i think about this the more logical it is. Ive never thought about it like that. It is an interesting point, though after reading it, it reminds me of an exchange from the movie Good Will Hunting between Will and his counselor: SEAN Well, are you going out again? WILL I don't know. SEAN Why not? WILL Haven't called her. SEAN Jesus Christ, you are an amateur. WILL I know what I'm doing. She's different from the other girls I met. We have a really good time. She's smart, beautiful, fun... SEAN So Christ, call her up. WILL Why? So I can realize she's not so smart. That she's boring. You don't get it. Right now she's perfect, I don't want to ruin that. SEAN And right now you're perfect too. Maybe you don't want to ruin that. SEAN (cont'd) Well, I think that's a great philosophy Will, that way you can go through your entire life without ever having to really know anybody. So depends on how you want to play it, but judging from your pictures, you look young, and at this stage in your life, relationships should be about the thrill and excitement, which is what you clearly have. I can promise you that if things get any deeper, you'll discover something about him, or him you, and the fun will soon be lost. Maybe things will go well for a month or two, maybe even 6 months, but in the end things won't work out, not that they should anyway. -- Posted by PrideAndJoy at 4:33 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Also, why is this in the hardware tech forum? Unless this boy you met is a robot, I don't see the relation. Either way, hope my answer was thought provoking and of some assistance. -- Posted by PrideAndJoy at 4:36 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Vintorez at 4:26 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from cozysoxx at 7:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from PrideAndJoy at 7:18 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I think the more you get to know him, the more you'll realize he is like everybody else out there. I would suggest keeping your distance, or else you'll spoil the fantasy.    The more i think about this the more logical it is. Ive never thought about it like that. what if he's not like everyone else, maybe he'd something special to you, and you might regret it later if you ignore him That goes both ways. What if she meets him, he's like everyone else (which is probably the situation) and now she regrets ever taking things further. She had her little romance perfect with the occasional texts and calls, but once she got to hanging out with him on a daily basis, she fines out he's unintelligent, boring, unfunny, and an asshole. Some of my biggest regrets are really getting to know people and subsequently losing them as friends or girlfriends. It's all a matter of which regret will be the more severe.