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-- Posted by Anonymous at 4:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

She complains about everything, and it is making me a little depressed again.  

I recently felt my mood lighten, after being severely depressed for 6 months.

But then, I have to hear my friend complain about her life, when she has a great boyfriend, a great relationship with her father, countless awards in soccer, and great grades.

I have none of the above, which is partly what depresses me, because I believe/d I'll never have it.

But anyways, the point is, I wish my friend would stop complaining about her life. If she doesn't want all that, I'll be glad to have it.

edit: She says her life sucks because some people on her soccer team don't like her, because she's better than them.


-- Posted by ocho cinco at 4:21 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

tell her how much better her life is than yours next time she complains


-- Posted by InsaneBlue at 4:21 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

Some kid in Africa is thinking the same thing about you and me.


-- Posted by xPicturesOfYou3 at 4:21 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

maybe she just needs to vent and you are her venter person. I mean, if you want her to stop talk to her about it.


-- Posted by Anonymous at 4:22 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

Quote: from InsaneBlue at 4:21 pm on Jan. 7, 2009


Some kid in Africa is thinking the same thing about you and me.

I hate when people make those comparisons. Problems are relative, to the situation you are in.


-- Posted by InsaneBlue at 4:23 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

Quote: from Anonymous at 4:22 pm on Jan. 7, 2009


Quote: from InsaneBlue at 4:21 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

Some kid in Africa is thinking the same thing about you and me.

I hate when people make those comparisons. Problems are relative, to the situation you are in.


That's the point.


-- Posted by Uhhello at 4:24 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

what does she complain about:S?
I find people who have nothing, tend not to complain about anything...i.e African kids.
But lil rich kids could complain for the world!!


-- Posted by Thekillers98 at 4:24 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

Next time she complains compare your life to hers and tell her how much her life doesn't suck?....


-- Posted by Lewdness at 4:25 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

Quote: from Anonymous at 4:22 pm on Jan. 7, 2009


Quote: from InsaneBlue at 4:21 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

Some kid in Africa is thinking the same thing about you and me.

I hate when people make those comparisons. Problems are relative, to the situation you are in.


Same can be said about your friend.

I don't like the idea that just because someone "seems" to have everything, it gives them no right to complain. That's just bullshit.

I completely understand where you're coming from, but she has a different sort of pain than you do and it doesn't make her problems any less than yours.


-- Posted by CuteKittenofDoom at 4:26 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

Back when I had friends, my friend would do that exact same thing.

Only mine was a total hipocrit and would say that I did it too and she knows my life is worse then hers.

Sorry, I want to let you know it's going to be alright, but I really don't know. I hope everything will be alright.


-- Posted by kissmeintherain91 at 4:30 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

Just tell her to stfu


-- Posted by HiggledyPiggledy at 6:45 pm on Jan. 7, 2009

Tell her to go mess someone's head in, and bum off.


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