-- Posted by Anonymous at 5:56 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Like today, i wanted to go out to eat for lunch. I invited him at 2, and he showed up 2 hours late. He couldn't even give me a good reason. I wanted to make it there by a certain time because the price increases after 4, and since i was paying i was trying to save money. But thats not all, we also fought the night before today, i mean, this is an everyday thing. We have been together for 2 years, he is my first real bf, but i just don't know if all this fighting is healty. We break up like once a week at least, but we always seem to make up. Should i just end things, even though i love him to death? I'm just sick of crying every other day! -- Posted by scandalousx3 at 5:57 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 honestly if you have to ask that question then yes! -- Posted by chelseamorgan at 5:57 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 If you break up once a week at least, that's really ridiculous. It would be best for you - and him- if you just ended it and kept it ended. It will make the emotional burden less, per say. -- Posted by Disposition at 5:57 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 It sounds like you'd be happier without him. -- Posted by The Prodigy at 5:57 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 No. A stupid fight doesn't lead you anywhere.... -- Posted by sccerfreak at 5:59 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 on again off again couples are annoying. Either break up for real or learn how to fight less. -- Posted by bass09 at 6:00 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from akallen at 5:57 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 No. A stupid fight doesn't lead you anywhere.... ^this....but if it is an everyday thing then you should dosent mean you have to be apart forever just take a few months apart and try again -- Posted by Precarious at 6:03 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 just drop him it seems things arent gonna get any better if they've been that bad -- Posted by CarolineLouise at 6:06 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 It's pointless to put yourself through that things haven't changed so far, what makes you think they will at somepoint -- Posted by alliecat89 at 9:45 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 sounds like my former situation, except we didnt break up every week.  sometimes my ex would be 3 hours late.  you have to cut it off completely.  it is NOT healthy and you are probably just together out of habit.  believe it or not you will feel better in the end.  relationships are not supposed to make you cry, unless it is happy crying. -- Posted by nik1 at 12:38 am on Jan. 8, 2009 You can't make him love you and by the way things are going it sounds like he doesn't care.  I would suggest that you grow a backbone and take a strong (not emotional..no crying) position and get to the bottom line of the problems.  Make sure he knows that you are not going to continue the roller coaster ride any longer.....and stick to it.   -- Posted by runthespread at 12:43 am on Jan. 8, 2009 You should talk to him about the problems and figure out why you fight, and why it happens a lot. Him not giving you a good reason for being late may be your opinion, but 2 hours is rather long. Just try to talk it out and if you both aren't committed to changes, then maybe it's no good.