-- Posted by Glamgal198 at 6:18 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 This guy i used to like is back in town. I didn't know until saturday when i was at this club with my friends. I saw him there and we talked the whole night. When the club closed he asked if i wanted to go back to his place to watch a movie, i said yea, and we did. We did nothing else. I layed my head on his chest, and he rubbed my back, but thats as far as it went. I like this friend of mine, so i am no longer going to speak to him so i won't cheat on my bf, but is this something i should tell him about? -- Posted by Lally at 6:18 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 TAKE IT TO THE GRAVE. -- Posted by 4irate at 6:19 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 No.. You did nothing wrong, why tell him if it's not important? -- Posted by ElizabethCox at 6:19 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 No, why start a fight? -- Posted by SIim Shady at 6:19 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I would be mad -- Posted by Editor in Chief at 6:19 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 You're making the right decision by eliminating him from your life right now while you're with your bf, knowing it might tempt you. Keep it that way, but no need to tell. -- Posted by pixie dust11 at 6:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 definitley tell him about it. be prepared for upsetness adn yellin g and or dissapointment. if u really care about him u shuld tell him cuz its better hes mad at u now instead of him finding out later adn finding out u didnt tell him but just because u were truthful doesnt mean hell forgive u . make sure u make it clear u arent talking to him anymore and maybe stay away from clubs/ bars without him for a bit? -- Posted by Craziie at 6:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Dont tell him.. it;; cause unwanted drama, -- Posted by DemolitionxXxLover at 6:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I love how most of the girls said 'take it to the grave!' That's what I said. -- Posted by Lady Catastrophic at 6:22 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 You shouldn't tell him unless you have feelings for this other guy now, then he should know and you should be clear about who it is you want to be with. But if this was just a what if, and you stayed faithful and still want to be with him... then you did nothing you need to inform him about. -- Posted by ForeignFishes at 6:22 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 It's a violation of trust if you do not tell him. -- Posted by Shibs at 6:22 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Don't tell him. But if he asks, don't lie about it either. -- Posted by katherine20 at 6:25 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Don't tell him unless he asks. It'll just cause a fight you don't want to have. -- Posted by hithere at 6:25 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 do what you would want him to do if the situation were reversed. -- Posted by Bridgetcheers77 at 6:26 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 you rele didnt do anything wrong so dont tell him, its not like you did it with him -- Posted by kissmeintherain91 at 6:32 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Don't ask don't tell Of u had done someting I would say differently believe meeliminate him completely and ur all set -- Posted by Bexi324 at 6:38 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 It is always best to be truthful with your boyfriend when it comes to going to a guys house even if you guys dont touch, what if this guy whos back gores around sayin junk bout u and him? That could only cause trouble. Let him here it from you, but make sure you are CLEAR when you tell him that you did nothing more then what you did. -- Posted by GeneCosta at 10:30 am on Jan. 8, 2009 Um, yes, you should tell him if you value your boyfriend in the least. As should all girls. In many relationships having your girlfriend lay her head on another male is considered cheating.