-- Posted by Anonymous at 6:32 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 This is kinda a long story, SORRY. But please try to give me advice .. on the relationship, and the friends, i'll start with friends .. My best friend of four years is not herself. She suddenly has to have a bf. She' liked Harry (fake name for privacy reasons) for over a year. Actually, she told me she's in love with him. I believe it. If you could see the way she looks at him, wow. But she has another friend, Luke,  and He REALLY likes her. He's asked her out THREE times, and everytime she says maybe. We were all staying the night together last Friday. Which was awkward since Harry finally admitted to liking her back, and Luke was there. And when she would pay more attention to one of them, the other would get jeoulous. Finally it came down to her having to choose. She didn't know what to do, cause she knew she loved Harry, and she knew she could eventually fall in love with Luke. I told her to go for harry, since she loved him. So she did, and Harry said he arry is a major player. He's done stuff with all of her friends including her bff (me) but, i figured he had changed. Turns out a few days after all of this, he started dating someone else. So then my friends was all like 'Well i wonder if Luke will forgive me' of course he did, he asked her out, she said maybe. Today she told me she likes Fred, this guy who our other bff (Miley) used to LOVE. They dated for a longgg time. She asked our other friend if she cared, and Miley said 'No' cause she didn't want to say yes, since she has moved on, but Love doesnt go away like that, so of course she cared. She asked my opinion and i told her it was fucked up. and she couldn't have all the guys she wanted. Luke is planning on asking her out again this week. i asked her what she is gonna say, and she said she was gonna say yes, (she also said that the last 3 times) and i told her that that wasn't fair to Luke, cause she has feelings for two other people. And she started crying, i felt bad and told her to say Yesss. My friend is a V btw, so dont say she's a slut. NEXT _ Here's the even more confusing part. That night we all stayed the night together was my first real time with Luke.  We've chilled before, had small talk, but never really had a convo. Well, when he was all mad about my friend choosing Harry, he went walking down the road by himself, and i felt bad, so i went with him. and we talked. I tried to cheer him up, and it worked :)  When we got back to the house a lil while later, he was himself again, and we were both laughing and happy. The rest of the night we hung out in a group, and were all having a good time. I could clearly see why my friend liked him. Cute, tall, Funny. everything. But i can't do that to a friend, so i pushed it away. and when one of my other friends asked me what i did that night, i told her everything (leaving out that i was unsure of my feelings) but she's known me my whole life, and she  was like ' I can tell you like him, when you talk you blush and won't look me in the eyes, and you have a smile on your face' i denied it fully. Because i'm not even sure. I'm attracted to him, and i don't want my friend to hurt him, but idk what i'm feeling. It's been almost a week since then and we text everyday. I was thinking that maybe he was feeling the same thing, until a few mins ago he brought up asking my friend out again, and i said 'Wow, your really forgivng' and he said 'My feelings fo her our to strong not to forgive her.'  I felt .. major disapointment i guess. idk how to describe it, but i don't like it. If i don't like him why am i reacting like this  ? im so confused .. -- Posted by DanaLovs15 at 6:36 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Whoa... maybe take up some new hobby?? -- Posted by Tag548 at 6:39 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 fuck bitches get money -- Posted by Brunette lady at 6:41 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I do not think your friend will stay with luke she seems to go from guy to guy. She doesn't sound mature enough to handle a long term relationship with one person. You should let things go on as they would let her "say yes" to Luke. I doubt they will last but maybe he'll get to know you more and start to have more feelings for you. If he stays "In love" with your friend no matter what she does to him then forget about him. She shouldn't be doing that she made it clear she likes harry and that guy luke is stupid for letting her take adavntage of him like that. But I guess a crush can do that. I would wait don't go for luke right now he is way too into your friend and he is likely using you to get to her.