-- Posted by xBlondeVixxenx at 6:32 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Soda. -- Posted by xBlondeVixxenx at 6:32 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I'm a bit confused about what I should do. about 2 weeks ago my friend introduced me to this guy named Nicholas; he's 25 and I'm 19. We were at Guitar Center and that's where he works and she's known him for a couple of years already. I was with her and she just like casually introduced us nothing big. Well then we start talking on myspace and facebook, just like casual stuff and lately we've been talking a lot on AIM and on the phone. He's a very sweet guy, and he's very intellectual and I enjoy talking to him & he's physically attractive as well & we just seem to have this connection. His parents are going to be in California this weekend and...well Sunday he wants to hang out, go see a movie, and then go to dinner or something where we can talk and get to know each other better. He plays guitar,writes his own songs,and sings, and he has his own studio at his house and he wants to show it to me. And he said after that maybe we can cuddle up in front of the fire place and watch a movie and be all romantic-like maybe have some wine or something as well. And don't get me wrong I'd love to spend time with him; It's just that I don't know him all that well....so I may be a bit uncomfortable being alone at his house with him but idk. He doesn't strike me as the type of man to try anything, like rape or slip me drugs or anything. He seems like a very nice guy and he is according to my friend. But idk..Should I go for it? What should I do or what precautions should I take? -- Posted by sexaypants at 6:33 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Go for it. But be careful! -- Posted by sexaypants at 6:33 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 soda -- Posted by TheFamousLivingDead at 6:33 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Aww, I'd go for it. Good luck! -- Posted by TheFamousLivingDead at 6:33 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I don't drink it, but I call it soda. -- Posted by Editor in Chief at 6:34 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Aratal at 8:09 pm on July 24, 2008 Well I say soda, but I don't really drink it. That. -- Posted by Editor in Chief at 6:34 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I think the first time you hang out with him you shouldn't be alone. Stick to the dinner and the movies - the stuff in public - and at the least take it from there and play it by ear. -- Posted by babecakes at 6:34 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from davidrocksdude at 8:09 pm on July 24, 2008 please include their prices as well. Dude, fuck that. Find the prices out on your own. Mikes hard lemonade and twisted tea, smirnoff ice and smirnoff twisted whatevers... wine coolers, guiness (beer), grolsch (beer) Also, mixing malibu coconut rum with canned pineapple juice is both delicious and sneakily alcoholic. -- Posted by babecakes at 6:34 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 dont drink the wine, i wouldnt recomand really. but other stuff seems really sweet, go for it. -- Posted by Lady Catastrophic at 6:34 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 WEll seems like you know him as well as you possibly can from just meeting on the internet heh, but I think the solution to this is maybe do a group date thing and talk it through with him to be sure that it is ok with him. But bring a friend for safety so that you know he isn't some psycho, and you have that comfort there. Good luck, hope you two work out :) -- Posted by Lady Catastrophic at 6:34 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from hard candy at 8:13 pm on July 24, 2008 Quote: from rebelmozzerella at 5:10 pm on July 24, 2008 Quote: from 420Mike at 8:09 pm on July 24, 2008 Mikes hard    Good stuff right there. no crap espeshaly the pink stuff I think it tastes pretty good, then again I like lemon-aid. -- Posted by Shibs at 6:35 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from benjacksoff at 8:10 pm on July 24, 2008 well most of them said they were disease free Most of them will lie. They have no reason to tell you the truth. If anything, it's worse for them because if they did tell you the truth, you wouldn't sleep with them. So it's in their best interest to lie. -- Posted by Shibs at 6:35 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I say go for it. But don't go to his house if he gives you ANY reason to doubt him beforehand. I hope everything works out. -- Posted by bloundybab11 at 6:35 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from CheyBear at 1:01 am on July 25, 2008 Hey there. I'm bad. You? Awh im ok -- Posted by bloundybab11 at 6:35 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Ummmm I hope you work it out thats all I can do 4 u!Cuz im new -- Posted by xxtearz of despairxx at 6:37 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I find it ridiculous someone called the cops! -- Posted by xxtearz of despairxx at 6:37 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 sure go out on a date with him, but don't go to his house to "cuddle" "drink wine" and be "romantic".  He's much older, and since you don't know him that well you can't be sure of his intentions.  The smart thing to do would be to date him (if you're that interested) but don't go "full force" especially since you barely know him.  think about it... -- Posted by Disposition at 6:41 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I'd say you should take it slow. Go to the movies and to dinner, but don't go to his house. If he needs a reason why you can't go, just say you have to get to bed early or something. When you know him better and are legit dating him, going to his house, etc, sounds like a cute idea. -- Posted by Disposition at 6:41 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 It is groupies but I'm sure they wanted both. -- Posted by flyonthewall at 4:57 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 find yourself your own shortie. dont betray your friend (bros before hoes) -- Posted by flyonthewall at 4:57 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 text the friend that introduced you before you go to his house so somebody knows where you are. he seems nice so dont be paranoid. but also be smart about what you do.