-- Posted by stuffydays at 6:54 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 my boyfriend used to call me every night about an hour before bed, and we used to talk about random crap, just sweet nothings really. I always loved that phone call and looked forward to it all day (especially on days when i couldn't see him). It just made it a lot easier to fall asleep, it made me feel good, it made me feel loved. but now, him and his buddies play an online game at night. It just started about a week ago. He would call me like a half hour before they started, so I could deal with that, no big. But it's slowly getting worse. Tonight was he first night he didn't call, all he did was text "playing tonight babe love you good night". I don't know, i always thought that that phonecall was special, i guess its not to him? I'm afraid to tell him, i don't want to sound clingy or obsessed. *sigh* advice? -- Posted by sub800 at 6:55 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 ...suck his dick... or make him think you're going to -- Posted by amazinglover at 6:55 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 ages..?? -- Posted by surfergurl at 6:55 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 it's a fad, it should die down -- Posted by minnie38 at 6:55 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 have u tried playing it with him? or u could bribe him with sex...might work -- Posted by UltimaTaz at 6:55 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Play with him. :3 -- Posted by LudovicoTechnique at 6:56 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 This is why I could never maintain a relationship. -- Posted by identitycrisis at 6:56 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 OWNED -- Posted by justin1990rm at 6:56 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 you're too clingy and obsessed -- Posted by Clara Bell at 6:56 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 All boys go through phases where they push their girlfriend to the back of their mind. If it becomes excessive, sit him down and talk. But why not call him? Just because he doesn't call doesn't mean the calls aren't special to him. -- Posted by Lady Catastrophic at 6:56 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 HAHAHAH... it is an addiction you gotta deal with. If he has an Xbox I understand, but also if he does why not get one live too so you can play together and talk together from two different homes? -- Posted by Lohrbas at 6:56 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I hope it's not WoW.  @.@ -- Posted by Taurian at 6:57 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Fuck him! It's your right to be clingy! -- Posted by MoonlitEden at 6:58 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 He texted you, so it isn't like he's ignoring you.  I completely understand the phone call being important, but he also has a life outside of you.  I know that can hurt to hear, but relationships where the two people dote on each other nonstop usually don't work.  Make a time for the two of you to talk, and it doesn't have to be an hour each and every day.  Can he talk to you earlier in the day possibly?  Things change in relationships and it's up to you whether or not you accept that change.  Just talk to him and let him know how you feel, but don't be too clingy about it. -- Posted by stuffydays at 6:58 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from xsharpi at 6:56 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 HAHAHAH... it is an addiction you gotta deal with. If he has an Xbox I understand, but also if he does why not get one live too so you can play together and talk together from two different homes? yes it's Xbox, and i don't play video games I can't stand them. Maybe thats why it gets to me so bad... WHAT it is I'm being replaced by. we're both 18. I know, sad. -- Posted by stuffydays at 7:01 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from MoonlitEden at 6:58 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 He texted you, so it isn't like he's ignoring you. I completely understand the phone call being important, but he also has a life outside of you. I know that can hurt to hear, but relationships where the two people dote on each other nonstop usually don't work. Make a time for the two of you to talk, and it doesn't have to be an hour each and every day. Can he talk to you earlier in the day possibly? Things change in relationships and it's up to you whether or not you accept that change. Just talk to him and let him know how you feel, but don't be too clingy about it. i think it just surprises me how unimportant it is to him. When I look forward to it so much each and every day, and it doesn't even matter to him. I don't know, it just hurts. -- Posted by SomeRandomKid at 7:03 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 if u have a pussy u can rule the world.. no videogame could amount to the pleasure u get from women.. if he's straight.. he'll come thru -- Posted by stuffydays at 7:05 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 this has nothing at all to do with sex... at all. i don't know where anyone got that from. -- Posted by Lady Catastrophic at 7:07 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Well you can't expect him to give in, if you won't meet him half way. Look around, you may actually find a video game you like. -- Posted by stuffydays at 7:10 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from xsharpi at 7:07 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Well you can't expect him to give in, if you won't meet him half way. Look around, you may actually find a video game you like. lol, and maybe find 500$ lying on the ground for an Xbox and a TV? -- Posted by WRXSTI at 7:27 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 take the game out of the xbox and scratch the shit out of when he aint looking -- Posted by sja at 8:47 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Boys will be boys, you can't expect himt o call every night but then again he is wrong because you guys have a routine which you are use to what you need to do is just find something to do thats just as occupying and let him see how it feels or tell him how you feel about it and see if it changes. -- Posted by Set My Soul On Fire at 9:00 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Get over it. He's allowed to do both, stop being so selfish.