-- Posted by Anonymous at 9:07 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 so it's my birthday today, i'm 21 but im never really happy when it's my birthday because it just reminds me that i'm 21 and never had a boyfriend.  and each year my ages increases and the sadder it becomes that i never had a boyfriend :( lol i don't know why i look at it that way. -- Posted by OllyNZ at 9:08 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Aww sounds like me except your older, keep hoping and looking! there is someone out their for everyone -- Posted by Joke at 9:08 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 maybe you never asked anyone out. it won't kill you to ask someone out, they might say yes, and if they dont, so what? you're 21 you can handle it. -- Posted by divine judgement at 9:09 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 belive in yourself! -- Posted by CarolineLouise at 9:09 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Give it time and a crap ton of it -- Posted by LtrOusRtD at 9:10 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Hey you know what? stay innocent.. stay away from heartbreak.. it's not really worth it unless you are in true love and there is no way to determine it.. Hey I know this women who is in her 50's and has an adopted daughter and isn't married..  just keep friends.. cause friends are amazing and life can be cruel -- Posted by blufindr at 9:11 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Happy birthday. Look at it this way: You'll probably never end up with a jerkwad. -- Posted by protectivesister at 9:11 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 well for me i thought i never get a boyfriend but i found someone whos just perfect for me  just wait and the guy will show up but keep your mind open mostly depend on there personality  there looks will fade in time while personality will stay -- Posted by the seer at 9:11 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 go watch the 40 year old virgin, you'll feel better. heh, in all seriousness though, im sorry, but you'll find someone its not that big a deal, not yet anyway. -- Posted by AliciaVengeance at 9:11 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I'm sure you'll find someone. Don't give up. Talk to more guys and just give it a little bit of time.  *Hugs* -- Posted by candygirl16 at 9:18 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 if you go to the bars you can get a free shot every one you go to!!!!!!!! CELEBRATE!!!! -- Posted by sammiroo at 9:26 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from LtrOusRtD at 9:10 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Hey you know what? stay innocent.. stay away from heartbreak.. it's not really worth it unless you are in true love and there is no way to determine it.. Hey I know this women who is in her 50's and has an adopted daughter and isn't married.. just keep friends.. cause friends are amazing and life can be cruel I think heartbreak is worth experiencing. Just keep your eyes open and don't be afraid to take a chance.