-- Posted by iLuvBooks at 1:27 am on Jan. 8, 2009 my girlfriend told me she loved me on new years night, but i didnt say anything back. ever since then, she's been kind of hot/cold towards me. she tells me she can't live without me n would never leave me, but then tells me 2day that she is quiting her job and moving back to her old town, which is 2hrs from me.?.?.! i'm so confused n mad n sad n really hurt but dont want to hold her back or feel like a selfish ass.     she hasnt even tried to call me since she told me that 19 hrs ago. she gets off work at 330am -- Posted by Mein Alias at 1:27 am on Jan. 8, 2009 You should tap that. -- Posted by gretchx3 at 1:29 am on Jan. 8, 2009 You need to let her no how you feel! -- Posted by DopeSickGirl at 1:29 am on Jan. 8, 2009 go see her, if you love her, tell her. if you dont, atleast be honest with her about it. -- Posted by letter 5 at 1:29 am on Jan. 8, 2009 I am not sure if I selected the appropriate poll option, but what I can say here is--say what you mean. If you are not ready to say I love you to someone, then don't. But, if it seems to be confusing her then maybe you should clarify this to her, so she doesn't take your silence as "Hey-I don't really like you as much as you think." -- Posted by darkness253 at 1:30 am on Jan. 8, 2009 Get YOUR GIRL MATE! if want that is. why didn't you say it back?? Hang-loose A*** -- Posted by iLuvBooks at 1:36 am on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from darkness253 at 3:30 am on Jan. 8, 2009 Get YOUR GIRL MATE! if want that is. why didn't you say it back?? Hang-loose A*** i think love her, but i never even believed in love until i met her, which is really scarry. i just dont want to hav my heart crushed cuz i'm a fool for rushing into things.