-- Posted by bajanbabe at 10:45 am on Jan. 8, 2009 ive been going out with my boyfriend for the past 5/6 weeks now. i really care about him but 95% of the time i don't know where i stand with him.in college he acts like he doesnt even know me (i'll be lucky if i get a " hi , how you doin").we hardly go out 2gether now. i know we have exams and everything, but surely he should be able 2 maka least 1 hr 2 hang out with me. i know he can be soo sweet but its just soo annoying. i shouldnt have to tell him 2 say hello or spend time with me. And the funny thing is, all this is making me like him even more .i dunno, with him its liek every1 else comes 1st. his friends, family work..everything..and im just standin at the sidelines w8tin 2 be acknoleged.ive tried tlkin 2 him bout it but i dont think it got through.i want 2 tlk 2 him face 2 face but he wont even make time.we go to the same colleges4 pete's sake.i see him everyday yet he's still a stranger 2 me. i dunno what to do... i kno im jus rambling on but i just need 2 get it off my chest..and advice wouldbe gr8 too.sorry its so long.     -- Posted by Hoebag at 10:48 am on Jan. 8, 2009 A lot of the time in life, we want what we can't have and when we can't have something we want it more. It's like... playing hard to get, it makes the guy want you more. Don't let him feel like you're on the outside of his life. explain this too him and see what he has to say and this. If you want proper advice feel free to PM me ^____^ -- Posted by flufferbunkers at 10:48 am on Jan. 8, 2009 it's good to vent sometimes. most people on here are jerks. But you can find some good caring friends on here too.