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-- Posted by Anonymous at 4:44 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

OKay so my friends are really making me and my bf mad by saying we don't act like bf/gf and stuff like that. and i don't get wat they mean. and i guess the reason why is cuz of me. i can't get close to anyone. its a trust issue thing.

what do i do?
Help?


-- Posted by brownee at 4:45 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

It's none of your friends' business


-- Posted by Seani at 4:45 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

Do nothing. If you and your bf are happy the way you are then don't try to change just so your friends change their opinions on you.


-- Posted by Joke at 4:45 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

act like a real girlfriend,

if you can't

you're not suitable for that person.
TRUTH.


-- Posted by CarolineLouise at 4:45 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

Just tell them to shut up
and that they don't see you two when you're alone


-- Posted by runthespread at 4:45 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

Well, first of all they shouldn't say harsh things. You have to work on that though, it's hard to have a meaningful relationship without trust and the risk of hurt. If not, you'll have different problems, including those comments which will arise.


-- Posted by Lally at 4:45 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

Start working on the trust issue. Your not able to have a good relationship with someone if you can't trust. Trust is the relationship's foundation!


-- Posted by xroses are redx at 4:46 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

They don't have the right to judge your relationship.
Maybe you should spend time away from them if they're bugging you.


-- Posted by blufindr at 4:48 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

You don't make out with him in public.

Do it.


-- Posted by Craziie at 4:50 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

I dont think its any of their business. and i know what u mean.. intimacy is very.. awkard for me.


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