-- Posted by Monroe at 6:37 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Why have unprotected sex? Seriously, WHY? Why put yourself at risk for an incurable STD? Why risk the chance of getting pregnant? Seriously, it's not like I was taught to use a condom, and about pre-cum, and about STD's. It's common sense.   -- Posted by blufindr at 6:37 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 I don't do it. -- Posted by Vintorez at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 it feels better without a condom! -- Posted by IceTeaEdwin at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Cuz it ain't natural! 3:< -- Posted by katrinadoodle at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 To have a baby? -- Posted by RubberTrees at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 I guess some people just think it feels better, and actually believe in the pull-out method.   Or they're on the pill.   -- Posted by Brainheartlunggut at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant. There is no "safe sex" -- Posted by Monroe at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Vintorez at 8:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 it feels better without a condom! Oh please... -- Posted by Baron Samedi at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Feels good man -- Posted by filthh at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 agreed it feels a lot better. but indeed it's very stupid... -- Posted by xPicturesOfYou3 at 6:39 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 I would never do it without condoms. I'm not risking anything. All that crap, it isn't worth being able to feel something better. -- Posted by Monroe at 6:39 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Baron Samedi at 8:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Feels good man I hear herpes feels pretty good, too..... -- Posted by katrinadoodle at 6:39 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from crimeinstereo at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Vintorez at 8:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 it feels better without a condom! Oh please... Actually it does   Also condom =/= only form of birth control -- Posted by RubberTrees at 6:39 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 9:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant. There is no "safe sex" It's safer than not using any protection. -- Posted by Monroe at 6:40 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from RubberTrees at 8:39 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 9:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.  There is no "safe sex" It's safer than no using any protection. Most definitely. The chances of getting pregnant while using a condom are very slim. It happens, but very rarely. -- Posted by young22 at 6:40 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.   There is no "safe sex" she's right that's why they call it safer sex now -- Posted by simplyamazing at 6:40 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 i dont have sex -- Posted by darkness253 at 6:40 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.   There is no "safe sex" ??????? How? i know they are not hundred percent. but did it break? Is there a safe kind? and If it does break and you know cum went in... is there any Steps you can take?? -- Posted by Brainheartlunggut at 6:42 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from crimeinstereo at 2:40 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from RubberTrees at 8:39 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 9:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.       There is no "safe sex"    It's safer than no using any protection. Most definitely. The chances of getting pregnant while using a condom are very slim. It happens, but very rarely. Oh, it's most definitely better than using nothing at all. It's better to use a condom, or birth control. I'm just saying that neither protects you 100% from pregnancy or STDs. -- Posted by Micus at 6:51 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 I can't get pregnant. In taking the risk of not using a condom, I at least am responsible for me and my partner. It's not like there's going to be some child created in a fucked up situation. If I fuck up, I get in trouble for it, no one else. That said, there are only select times when I don't use a condom, and it's for very particular reasons and I do it with trust. Except for that one time last year that I was convinced I had HIV for 3 months until I could get tested.. oii. -- Posted by GeneCosta at 8:21 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.   There is no "safe sex" Apparently, if we are to believe in the Bible, not even abstinence is 100% effective. Goddamn life.   Having sex is like driving a car. You'll never be completely safe, but if you're smart, you'll probably avoid collisions. -- Posted by GeneCosta at 8:24 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Ideally if you don't want to get pregnant, both sides should be using protection. Condom + Birth control pill/patch is about 99.9997% effective. -- Posted by islandgirl at 8:54 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from darkness253 at 6:40 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.  There is no "safe sex" ??????? How? i know they are not hundred percent. but did it break? Is there a safe kind? and If it does break and you know cum went in... is there any Steps you can take?? I don't know about her specific situation, but for your 2nd question the condom breaks or cum/precum enters her she can take the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy (kind of like a boost of birth control pills, but in a healthier format). Should be taken ASAP but can be used up to 120 hours after sex. -- Posted by MamaMockingbird at 10:47 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from islandgirl at 8:54 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from darkness253 at 6:40 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.       There is no "safe sex"    ???????    How?    i know they are not hundred percent.    but did it break?    Is there a safe kind?    and If it does break and you know cum went in...    is there any Steps you can take??     I don't know about her specific situation, but for your 2nd question the condom breaks or cum/precum enters her she can take the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy (kind of like a boost of birth control pills, but in a healthier format). Should be taken ASAP but can be used up to 120 hours after sex. No, 72 hours. -- Posted by islandgirl at 12:11 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from MamaMockingbird at 10:47 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from islandgirl at 8:54 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from darkness253 at 6:40 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.   There is no "safe sex"   ???????   How?   i know they are not hundred percent.   but did it break?   Is there a safe kind?   and If it does break and you know cum went in...   is there any Steps you can take??      I don't know about her specific situation, but for your 2nd question the condom breaks or cum/precum enters her she can take the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy (kind of like a boost of birth control pills, but in a healthier format). Should be taken ASAP but can be used up to 120 hours after sex. No, 72 hours. http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/emergency-contraception-morning-after-pill-4363.htm Actually it's now shown to be somewhat effective for up to 5 days although of course 3 is MUCH better and as soon as possible is what you're aiming for. -- Posted by MamaMockingbird at 12:38 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from islandgirl at 12:11 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from MamaMockingbird at 10:47 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from islandgirl at 8:54 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from darkness253 at 6:40 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Brainheartlunggut at 6:38 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My boyfriend used a condom and I still got pregnant.          There is no "safe sex"       ???????       How?       i know they are not hundred percent.       but did it break?       Is there a safe kind?       and If it does break and you know cum went in...       is there any Steps you can take??         I don't know about her specific situation, but for your 2nd question the condom breaks or cum/precum enters her she can take the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy (kind of like a boost of birth control pills, but in a healthier format). Should be taken ASAP but can be used up to 120 hours after sex.    No, 72 hours. http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/emergency-contraception-morning-after-pill-4363.htm Actually it's now shown to be somewhat effective for up to 5 days although of course 3 is MUCH better and as soon as possible is what you're aiming for. My PP leaflet says 72 hours o__O -- Posted by nikki at 2:57 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Because condoms aren't the only form of birth control, and if both you and your partner have been tested for STD's and are both clear, then they're not necassary. However, saying that, they're the most effective way of preventing pregnancy and I wouldn't have sex without one. It's not worth the risks :-/ -- Posted by Chiefette at 9:07 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Don't you have a child?