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-- Posted by shyboyswin at 8:26 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

I'm sure you've all read countless number of "should I talk to him/her?" threads, I'm not going to waste your time.  Here's the situation:

I'm a senior, and I like a junior in my gym class, however, I have never talked to her (at all) the entire year. There was a period of time where I though she may be interested in me (when I did things in class, her feet would move to my position, etc), but I obviously don't know anything until I talk to her tomorrow.

The only problem is, I seriously don't know what to say other than hello. If that is the only thing I have to say, I'm going to sound stupid - which I don't want to do.

Advice please?


-- Posted by Joke at 8:27 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

say how you feel;

im not sure anyone could be this bad;

sorry.


-- Posted by danndivision at 8:27 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

tell then you like them


-- Posted by cozysoxx at 8:28 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

Just accidently bump into her and talk to her, or sit next her or pretending you dont care or something
(:

be slick


-- Posted by Lally at 8:28 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

Finally! A smart newbie! For the first time in my life, im going to say, WELCOME TO LIVEWIRE. and i hope you stay here!!!
You would be a good influence on the others.

Strike up a conversation. :)


-- Posted by Sarge at 8:28 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

Just ask if she wants to go see a movie or something. Go for the classics of talking to girls. Easy, simple, usually gets the point across.


-- Posted by lightskaylaction at 8:28 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

when she's doing something make fun of it, like if she's shooting a basket or whatever and misses come up and be like "this is how you shoot a real basket" or something and it'll def be a conversation starter and you'll tell right away if she likes you if she flirts back with you.


-- Posted by Shmank at 8:29 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

Saying hi isn't stupid..if you consider that making yourself look/sound stupid, then you're going to think everything is going to be like that! then, in turn, nothing will happen. lol
good luck tho!!!!!!!! :)


-- Posted by Clear at 8:29 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

dude i sounded just like you a month ago do this. go up to her after class sometime and be like "Hey I think you're really cute and I was wondering if I could have you number so we could talk sometime" I can bet you right now she will say yes. than call her or text her the next day and ask her about herself and ask her stuff like does she do any sports or if she likes music and just go on it, dont be worried!!!


-- Posted by Precarious at 8:29 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

Quote: from cozysoxx at 10:28 pm on Jan. 8, 2009


Just accidently bump into her and talk to her, or sit next her or pretending you dont care or something  
(:

be slick


seriously


-- Posted by motorhead113 at 8:32 pm on Jan. 8, 2009

Quote: from cozysoxx at 12:58 am on Jan. 9, 2009


Just accidently bump into her and talk to her, or sit next her or pretending you dont care or something  
(:

be slick


YES. This is the best advice anyone can give you. Some chicks like when you act all shy and bashful and shit, but more often than not you'll come across akward. Bumping into her is genius, just be like

*bump*
Oh hey, sorry 'bout that. How're you doin?
Haha, not too bad, you?
I'm alright, ____________.

Fill in the blank and make a conversation out of it. talk to her more often as time goes on, make friends with her. Not best friends, as that complicates things. Friends to the point of like, hanging out together now and then. Once you;re there, make your move. Key words are being slick though, act like you don't care. Well, not don't care. But don't let her see that talking to her is the best thing to ever happen to you, you know? Good luck man.


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