-- Posted by RAGEMAN at 9:54 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Like to many problems to handle. Theres so many people on this website but the majority of them are the ones with the problems and the extreme minority or the ones with clear enough heads to give answers rather than just say "I know what you mean, I feel the same way :(" I've spent the better portion of my time while on here reading people's problems and trying to give them answers, but then 10 more people with very similar problems show up. The funny thing is most of them think it's their problems and no one else gets it, which makes the problem worse because it's them telling themselves they are just a hopeless rogue case that nobody can fix even though their problem is one most people seem to experience. I used to just troll this place and goof around, but god there are so many problems here. Alot of them going completely unanswered too because there just aren't enough people with enough time in their day to answer every one of them. -- Posted by RAGEMAN at 9:55 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 BTW, I know I'm only 22 days active. I had another account. -- Posted by Joke at 9:56 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from RAGEMAN at 9:55 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 BTW, I know I'm only 22 days active. I had another account. cure, thats what they all say. -- Posted by Lohrbas at 9:56 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 There are no answers here.  Only jokes.  And cruelty. -- Posted by HowAboutsNo at 9:57 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 perhaps alot of people responding saying "i am in the same position as you" can help the person feel like less of a hopeless rogue case that nobody can fix. I know that I am not always constructive, but I try to help. -- Posted by thegeek at 10:01 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 I know how you feel..... Not. -- Posted by RAGEMAN at 10:02 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from howaboutsno at 9:57 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 perhaps alot of people responding saying "i am in the same position as you" can help the person feel like less of a hopeless rogue case that nobody can fix. I know that I am not always constructive, but I try to help. I'd disagree. Alot of the time they just pull away from those people. They either pull away or both talk about how shitty they feel. Person A: "I'm so depressed and I feel like no one gets it :(" Person B: "I feel the same way, you just gotta live it day by day" Person A: "But it's so hard to" Person B: "I know, believe me I attempted suicide. I still feel like shit alot of the time." Great, now we've established both parties feel like shit alot of the time. They can relate to eachother with that. It actually may even promote the first or second person to feel like it's okay to feel like shit all the time. I mean all these other people feel like shit all the time, maybe the first person just belongs to a class of people that were destined to feel shitty? Thats just all a snowball of poisonous thoughts that doens't solve the problem. What a depressed person REALLY needs is somebody who can tell them how to climb out, not somebody to sit in the hole with. -- Posted by HowAboutsNo at 10:09 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 true, perhaps if they all sit in the same hole, and someone who can help comes along, everything will be okay