-- Posted by atarisrocks at 4:45 am on Jan. 9, 2009 he (17) been with his gf(16) around 6/7 months he engaged to her and recently i found out that he had unprotected sex with her. he asked me recently if i had any spare contraceptive pills as his gf ran out of them 2 months ago and hasnt had chance to go to the doctors. i told him to make sure he keeps safe with a condom and he goes i dont need them as she not got pregnant yet. im worried he moving too fast and gonna be a dad soon and he not thinking about the future properly. my parents dont approve of her as she got him to leave college and now he walks dogs for £15 a day and she dont work at all. all they do is have sex all day and drink around a bottle of vodka and a case of beer a day -- Posted by blufindr at 4:47 am on Jan. 9, 2009 He's most definitely moving too fast. Leave some condoms in his room. -- Posted by BackPorch at 4:48 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Yikes. Not sure there it too much you can do other than talk to him and let him make his own mistakes. -- Posted by atarisrocks at 4:49 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from blufindr at 12:47 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 He's most definitely moving too fast. Leave some condoms in his room. i gave him all the ones i have so about 40 (wont be needing them anymore as dont have a bf) and he went yay willy balloons and blow like 10 of them up. anyone that acts like this should not be having sex so imagine him with a kid -- Posted by loner asian at 4:50 am on Jan. 9, 2009 the only thing that you can you do for your prodigal brother  is let him learn to himself how awkward this world will  be for those who messed up in decision making for their selves. -- Posted by blufindr at 4:52 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from atarisrocks at 11:49 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from blufindr at 12:47 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 He's most definitely moving too fast.    Leave some condoms in his room. i gave him all the ones i have so about 40 (wont be needing them anymore as dont have a bf) and he went yay willy balloons and blow like 10 of them up. anyone that acts like this should not be having sex so imagine him with a kid Talk to his girlfriend. -- Posted by atarisrocks at 4:52 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from loner asian at 12:50 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 the only thing that you can you do for your prodigal brother is let him learn to himself how awkward this world will be for those who messed up in decision making for their selves. i feel that if he makes his own mistake a unwanted child will be brought into the world -- Posted by loner asian at 5:04 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from atarisrocks at 4:52 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from loner asian at 12:50 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 the only thing that you can you do for your prodigal brother  is let him learn to himself how awkward this world will  be for those who messed up in decision making for their selves. i feel that if he makes his own mistake a unwanted child will be brought into the world but you can't make a   any decision for your brother. and you already did your part of giving the best advice you could give. your brother is an idiot. he's worse than a drunkard who does know that the best thing he could do is to listen at you, but he doesn't cause of pride. -- Posted by atarisrocks at 5:05 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from blufindr at 12:52 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from atarisrocks at 11:49 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from blufindr at 12:47 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 He's most definitely moving too fast.   Leave some condoms in his room.    i gave him all the ones i have so about 40 (wont be needing them anymore as dont have a bf) and he went yay willy balloons and blow like 10 of them up. anyone that acts like this should not be having sex so imagine him with a kid Talk to his girlfriend. i would if i ever met her sober but she drunk 24/7 -- Posted by blufindr at 5:08 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from atarisrocks at 12:05 am on Jan. 10, 2009 i would if i ever met her sober but she drunk 24/7 Hide the booze. Then talk to her. -- Posted by atarisrocks at 5:12 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from blufindr at 1:08 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from atarisrocks at 12:05 am on Jan. 10, 2009 i would if i ever met her sober but she drunk 24/7 Hide the booze. Then talk to her. she gets them at her house -- Posted by EliEe at 5:14 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Are you freaking serious?! Thats a combination is going to be a disaster! -- Posted by blufindr at 5:15 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from atarisrocks at 12:12 am on Jan. 10, 2009 Quote: from blufindr at 1:08 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from atarisrocks at 12:05 am on Jan. 10, 2009 i would if i ever met her sober but she drunk 24/7    Hide the booze. Then talk to her. she gets them at her house Get your parents to talk to him. -- Posted by atarisrocks at 5:20 am on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from blufindr at 1:15 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from atarisrocks at 12:12 am on Jan. 10, 2009 Quote: from blufindr at 1:08 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from atarisrocks at 12:05 am on Jan. 10, 2009 i would if i ever met her sober but she drunk 24/7   Hide the booze. Then talk to her.    she gets them at her house Get your parents to talk to him. they tried but he does the oppersite they say no drinking so he drinks while working. they say she cant stay over he sneaks her in. -- Posted by surfrgrl at 5:23 am on Jan. 9, 2009 holy crap. definitely moving too fast. have her go to the store and get that plan b stuff. u dont need an rx. trust me, it works. -- Posted by blufindr at 6:59 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from atarisrocks at 12:20 am on Jan. 10, 2009 they tried but he does the oppersite they say no drinking so he drinks while working. they say she cant stay over he sneaks her in. Kick him out.