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-- Posted by Anonymous at 3:27 pm on Jan. 9, 2009

There's a chance that I might be pregnant.
My period is late so I had my boyfriend take me to planned parenthood yesterday.

I got a pregnancy test which came up negative, so our first time didn't get me pregnant. I also took the morning after pill because there was a condom malfunction two nights ago.

But the lady there told me to come back if I don't get my period in 3-4 weeks. So I won't even know what's up for maybe a month.
My period is already about 4 or 5 days late. It hasn't been late for almost 10 months. I think I've been spotting in the morning the past two days. but very very little.
I feel so fucking nauseated, and I don't know if it's because I'm pregnant or because I'm nervous about the possibility.
I'm watching Juno because everything else seems like it would just piss me off. Nothing seems like it matters right now.

I don't want to tell my parents [my mom's out of town anyway] because they'd never let me see my boyfriend again.

I feel so sick.

Please give me an idea of something to do to keep my mind off of this.


-- Posted by BeautifulLies82 at 3:31 pm on Jan. 9, 2009

Your period probably isn't happening because of stress. Relax. You took a test, you're not pregnant.


-- Posted by Craziie at 3:34 pm on Jan. 9, 2009

You know.. there was atime I thought I was pregnant.. i freaked !! and because i thought i was prego, my mind played tricks on me and made me beleive i was nautious, and all that.. dont tihnk about it ! trust me..just relax<33


-- Posted by Live Just To Die at 3:36 pm on Jan. 9, 2009

If the test has said negative you are either not pregnant (it's as simple as that!) or you are too early on in pregnancy for the test to pick up (1-2 weeks). If you are seriously worried then I would continue to go back until you are sound in your mind that you are safe and your not pregnant. They will give you the tests as long as you require them. Try not to think about it all until you know for deffinate, you will just wind yourself up over nothing and make yourself ill.
    As for the condom malfunction, the morning after pill should have sorted it if sperm did find its way into your vagina. The chance of it working decreases each day you wait to take it, you are usually safe if you take it up to three days later. You got it at two so there is a good chance that it sorted it if anything did happen.
    I would stop watching Juno for starters, thats not going to help now, is it? You will just wind yourself up and get stressed out. Don't worry about your mum or not being able to see your boyfriend because you don't know anything yet.
    All the signs are telling you your not pregnant, but as I said if you want peace of mind then continue to go back to the clinic every week if you want.
    If you want any more help feel free to PM me.


-- Posted by rrachelll at 3:44 pm on Jan. 9, 2009

its prob because of stress, dont worry about it


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