-- Posted by AcidSilence at 7:07 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 I talked to my mom about how i felt for the first time... About how im mad at her for drinking, smoking, fighting with my dad, getting out of control. For yelling, blowing things out of proportion, always screaming at my sister and i. Never dropping things, holding grudges, talking to me about how she hates everything... And it didn't even matter. She didn't even care. She kinda seemed like she did, And yet here she is about 3 days later screaming at me for being a liar and being an idiot and saying "you wonder why im a fucking alcoholic!" which is just fucking great. i had never talked to her before. and now i know i never will again. because i dont my heart just sitting out there, all my feelings and thoughts, and her just stomping on them. -- Posted by blufindr at 7:08 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Leave. Don't even bother. -- Posted by ird13 at 7:08 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 I would get her help if I were you. -- Posted by AcidSilence at 7:08 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from blufindr at 7:08 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Leave. Don't even bother. leave lw, or leave my house? -- Posted by oridniv at 7:09 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 I know what you mean...I'm really shut down from my mom and when I open up she doesn't say shit till later when she's throwing a tantrum she'll bring up stuff like "you think I don't understand you huh?" -- Posted by xxAnimexxFanaticxx at 7:09 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Just go. Shes not worth sticking around for. -- Posted by JMACCA at 7:09 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Move out. That's what I ended up having to do, and it was so much better that I did. -- Posted by AcidSilence at 7:09 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from ird13 at 7:08 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 I would get her help if I were you. she has been hospitalized from it three times, in the mental ward once, in rehab at least twice, all this within the past 3 years. -- Posted by puppie11 at 7:09 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 leave. im sorry for u that sucks -- Posted by Catalyst11 at 7:10 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Leave home, make yourself legally removed from your mom and find somewhere to live where you are under better circumstances -- Posted by AcidSilence at 7:10 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from JMACCA at 7:09 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Move out. That's what I ended up having to do, and it was so much better that I did. I wish. I'm 14. -- Posted by Jman19 at 7:10 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Oh... trust me, I know how this feels. I told my mom all my feelings a few days ago and she just stood there and looked at me blankly.   It's not a very nice feeling, to finally open up to someone, and have them not give a shit. I'm sorry she isn't being respectful to your feelings, but it took a lot of courage for you to tell her how you felt. Be proud of yourself. That's a big step. You know you can always PM me if you want to talk. :) Hang in there. x -- Posted by Catalyst11 at 7:11 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from AcidSilence at 7:10 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from JMACCA at 7:09 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Move out. That's what I ended up having to do, and it was so much better that I did. I wish. I'm 14.   You can go to court and get yourself legally removed from the family....there's a term for it......it starts with an e... -- Posted by cheer4jonas at 7:11 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Talk 2 another adult u trust. -- Posted by JMACCA at 7:12 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from AcidSilence at 10:10 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from JMACCA at 7:09 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Move out. That's what I ended up having to do, and it was so much better that I did. I wish. I'm 14.   I was only 15. Do you have a family member who would let you live with them? A close friend? I moved in with my grandmother when I left. -- Posted by blufindr at 7:12 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from AcidSilence at 2:08 pm on Jan. 10, 2009 Quote: from blufindr at 7:08 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Leave.    Don't even bother. leave lw, or leave my house? Your house. Lol. I should have stated, sorry. -- Posted by Catalyst11 at 7:13 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from JMACCA at 7:12 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from AcidSilence at 10:10 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from JMACCA at 7:09 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Move out. That's what I ended up having to do, and it was so much better that I did.    I wish.    I'm 14.     I was only 15. Do you have a family member who would let you live with them? A close friend? I moved in with my grandmother when I left. Yeah, get emancipated! -- Posted by Smartbutsexy at 7:13 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 that really sucks u shouldnt have to go though this -- Posted by Chava at 7:16 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 My mom's the same way. She put me into foster care when I was 12 and didn't look back. My grandma had to invite me to the Hannukah party she was throwing this year because although she had my number she didn't feel the need to call. Don't worry about it you'll be stronger than she is in spite of her. -- Posted by AcidSilence at 7:16 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from Catalyst11 at 7:11 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from AcidSilence at 7:10 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from JMACCA at 7:09 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Move out. That's what I ended up having to do, and it was so much better that I did.    I wish.    I'm 14.     You can go to court and get yourself legally removed from the family....there's a term for it......it starts with an e... its called uhmm.. emancipated. ugh, and you have to be 16 here if i remember right. and now she is going on about how she is so sick of my bullshit and she needs to go to bed or she is "going to kill one of her children, the one that lives with her" >_< -- Posted by AcidSilence at 7:18 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from JMACCA at 7:12 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from AcidSilence at 10:10 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from JMACCA at 7:09 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Move out. That's what I ended up having to do, and it was so much better that I did.    I wish.    I'm 14.     I was only 15. Do you have a family member who would let you live with them? A close friend? I moved in with my grandmother when I left. My sister who has her own place now would but i'd have to change schools cause she is kinda far and i don't have a license or anything and she doesn't have the time to drive me, she takes school full time and works 2 jobs. -- Posted by Catalyst11 at 7:21 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from AcidSilence at 7:18 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from JMACCA at 7:12 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from AcidSilence at 10:10 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from JMACCA at 7:09 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Move out. That's what I ended up having to do, and it was so much better that I did.   I wish.   I'm 14.      I was only 15. Do you have a family member who would let you live with them? A close friend? I moved in with my grandmother when I left. My sister who has her own place now would but i'd have to change schools cause she is kinda far and i don't have a license or anything and she doesn't have the time to drive me, she takes school full time and works 2 jobs. go ahead and move in with her.  It would be a lot better than living with an alcohol whore. -- Posted by AcidSilence at 7:25 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from Catalyst11 at 7:21 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from AcidSilence at 7:18 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from JMACCA at 7:12 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from AcidSilence at 10:10 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from JMACCA at 7:09 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Move out. That's what I ended up having to do, and it was so much better that I did.  I wish.  I'm 14.       I was only 15. Do you have a family member who would let you live with them? A close friend? I moved in with my grandmother when I left. My sister who has her own place now would but i'd have to change schools cause she is kinda far and i don't have a license or anything and she doesn't have the time to drive me, she takes school full time and works 2 jobs. go ahead and move in with her.  It would be a lot better than living with an alcohol whore. bit harsh? and i have to finish school...