-- Posted by bugluvstrp at 7:22 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 i have this really close guyfriend who used to love me and stuff but now we're just really close....well lately everytime ive seen him he's distant and doesnt want me to touch him other than a lousy hug...and i do mean hes been giving some lousy hugs but hes way different on the phone.hes always there to listen..hes realy protective and concerned bout my wellbeing.he hates not knowing whats going on with me at all times and if theres a new guy ive been talkin bout he wants to know details bout him.but yet when i try to treat him like all my other close guyfriends he gets distant.i dont know what to do..i dont know whats causing this...when i try to bring it up he denies it..what am i to think..he stopped telling me everything except maybe explaining tidbits his sister tells me..ive known him for 3 yrs and ive always known who he was..now i have no clue who my friend is.... -- Posted by blufindr at 7:23 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Um, no. Paragraphs and spelling, please. Proof-reading is your friend. Maybe he likes you but doesn't want to get close. -- Posted by Lohrbas at 7:24 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 He's probably trying to distance himself away from you because he doesn't want you to feel pressured into having sex with him. -- Posted by Dass at 7:24 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 hope u find ureself a better guy -- Posted by xPicturesOfYou3 at 7:26 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from blufindr at 7:23 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Maybe he likes you but doesn't want to get close. Agreed. -- Posted by Catalyst11 at 7:29 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Maybe he likes you, and he knows that things wont get to "bf/gf" status, so when you are close to him, he gets distant, so his feelings for you don't go through the roof. -- Posted by romeobebe91 at 7:31 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 You have got to write out your words, half the people here wont even bother if you don't, its just plain annoying to read. I'm sorry things changed for you, I've had it happen to me too, but I got over him and it got better, until that point though it was really though for me.