-- Posted by xBeautifulTragedyx at 9:14 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 I'd tell them to make me different. Make me more than just another person to wave at. Be there. Keep my secrets. Don't let go of my hand just because my grip is weak. Don't treat me like the ground you walk on, run on, stomp on, spit on. Them is everyone. Them is him, and her, and everyone. I'm a little upset, if you couldn't tell. I just want to sleep, but I've slept so much that I can't anymore. When I run out of one alternative, where do I turn? -- Posted by PrideAndJoy at 9:15 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 What the fuck are you talking about? -- Posted by Googoie at 9:19 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Turn to God. -- Posted by theyareAs at 10:19 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Quote: from Googoie at 11:19 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Turn to God. This wont help you or save you, turn to people. Some of us are actually not that bad, n i dont think you are either -- Posted by Googoie at 12:39 pm on Jan. 10, 2009 Quote: from theyareAs at 1:19 am on Jan. 10, 2009 Quote: from Googoie at 11:19 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 Turn to God. This wont help you or save you, turn to people. Says you. -- Posted by S0LITUDE at 1:49 pm on Jan. 10, 2009 And why exactly don't you feel like talking to them? Is it because you feel like it's not going to change things? I think you should try talking to them and tell them what you just told us. Sit down and talk to them without any other distractions so that they are solely focused on the situation. Try to think what exactly you're going to tell them before you do so and also think about the way you're going to talk to them because the results of what happens will depend on that as well. Try not to get angry or yell because this usually causes the other person to yell and then you end up having a huge yelling contest that does not lead to anything. That's why I say try to practice what you're going to tell them. I think that would be the best thing to do, to simply talk to them and see what happens. You also have to consider that perhaps they look at the situation differently. They might not think that they're doing anything wrong and perhaps not only are they doing something wrong but maybe you yourself are doing something wrong. Try to look at this as if you weren't involved and see if you can find anything that you are doing wrong. If you find something you should try to mention it to them when you talk to them so that it makes things a bit more balanced and also say the way you plan to change what you're doing wrong. I'm not saying that you're evil or that you're always wrong, I'm just saying that sometimes it's just their fault but also ours. If you feel like you can't speak to them about it them you should try to hint things by actions. For example: you could try to act with more kindness towards them because if that's what you give then that's what you will most likely receive. Do you think you could do that? Just slight changes of kindness towards them will hint to them that you have changed a bit and that you also want them to change. There's nothing like doing it by actions, but what would be better is to do it by actions but also by talking to them.