-- Posted by kristen16 at 10:01 am on Jan. 10, 2009 Did u ever think back later at something you did and regret it? Did u ever do something to a friend that made that friend leave? Did u ever look at pictures after you and that friend aren't friends anymore and kinda miss them? Well my problem is..... Some time ago I had a friend that I told I NEVER wanted to be friends with her anymore. She what she did was kinda took this guy away from me that she knew I had a thing for BIG time. But just now I was looking back at old pictures of us on myspace and I just remembered all the good times we had all the petty fights and everything we got thru all the stuff we know about each other and I kinda MISS her........ But Im not sure if I REALLY want her as a friend again..... or if I did how I would get her to listen to me, and see that I really was sorry for killing our friendship. So Any ideas on how I can get her to see that I am sorry and that I want to be friends again? Also if me and her got to be friends again then some of my other friends would be happy since they r friends with both of us. PLEASE HELP. -- Posted by jess15 at 10:03 am on Jan. 10, 2009 My friend ruined things for me with my guy.......but i knew that i wouldnt be able for it if i un-friended her......Shes my closest friend and guys shouldnt come between friendships no matter what -- Posted by ieshiachantel at 10:03 am on Jan. 10, 2009 friendships really prescious she probably feels the same way about you and misses you tooo just call her keep apoligiseing send notes, emails try everything coz u shudnt have to give mates up fight for her bk,you obviously feel u made a mistake so fix it, its not too late -- Posted by kristen16 at 10:04 am on Jan. 10, 2009 Quote: from jess15 at 10:03 am on Jan. 10, 2009 My friend ruined things for me with my guy.......but i knew that i wouldnt be able for it if i un-friended her......Shes my closest friend and guys shouldnt come between friendships no matter what But since I did un-friend her how do I fix it? -- Posted by jess15 at 10:06 am on Jan. 10, 2009 Quote: from kristen16 at 10:04 am on Jan. 10, 2009 Quote: from jess15 at 10:03 am on Jan. 10, 2009 My friend ruined things for me with my guy.......but i knew that i wouldnt be able for it if i un-friended her......Shes my closest friend and guys shouldnt come between friendships no matter what   But since I did un-friend her how do I fix it? You need to just send her a txt or whatever a comment on my-space and simply say.........i miss you....i mightent get over what you did for a while but i really want us to be friends again because i miss all the gud times....ya no sumtin like tat.. -- Posted by kristen16 at 10:16 am on Jan. 10, 2009 Quote: from jess15 at 10:06 am on Jan. 10, 2009 Quote: from kristen16 at 10:04 am on Jan. 10, 2009 Quote: from jess15 at 10:03 am on Jan. 10, 2009 My friend ruined things for me with my guy.......but i knew that i wouldnt be able for it if i un-friended her......Shes my closest friend and guys shouldnt come between friendships no matter what      But since I did un-friend her how do I fix it? You need to just send her a txt or whatever a comment on my-space and simply say.........i miss you....i mightent get over what you did for a while but i really want us to be friends again because i miss all the gud times....ya no sumtin like tat.. hmmmm okay thanks -- Posted by MadSketch at 6:33 pm on Jan. 10, 2009 Never live in regret. You can change what happened but you can live through it. -- Posted by Helios at 7:27 pm on Jan. 10, 2009 It is so sad when relationships come between long time friendships, especially since best friends usually last longer than boyfriend/girlfriend relationships.   I guess the only thing you can do is be honest and lay yourself at her mercy. Tell her that you were jealous but that you should have never let that get in the way of your friendship. Let her know that you realize what you did was a mistake and you want to make ammends. If she really was a good enough friend, she should see that you are sincere and give you another chance.