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-- Posted by Bearsy at 2:09 am on Jan. 11, 2009

Our society thinks it's best to be less knowledgeable in exchange for being more attractive and we are taught this from a young age with "don't ask how old a woman is" and "Haha you're old!" etc etc

it should not be


-- Posted by blufindr at 2:10 am on Jan. 11, 2009

Agreed.


-- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 2:10 am on Jan. 11, 2009

I ask people how old they are all the time, I work at a nursing home and it is hard to tell how old some of the people who live there are, so I ask.


-- Posted by arwen rashka at 2:10 am on Jan. 11, 2009

It is because "old" is associated with being decrepit, not in touch with the times, unable to adapt, forgetful, and unable to take care of oneself.


-- Posted by Bearsy at 2:11 am on Jan. 11, 2009

Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 2:10 am on Jan. 11, 2009


I ask people how old they are all the time, I work at a nursing home and it is hard to tell how old some of the people who live there are, so I ask.
but you can't deny "you're old" is generally meant to be insulting


-- Posted by giraffeofdoom at 2:11 am on Jan. 11, 2009

Most people just don't like realising that their lives are more over than they think. I know someone, however, who can't wait to grow old.


-- Posted by Lilly0112 at 2:11 am on Jan. 11, 2009

Yet some how it always makes you "cool: to be older then your friends or people you know.


-- Posted by HowAboutsNo at 2:12 am on Jan. 11, 2009

people don't want to get older, because everything is downhill. everything sags, and you cant get away with much, plus everyone expects you to be mature.


-- Posted by Bearsy at 2:12 am on Jan. 11, 2009

Quote: from arwen rashka at 2:10 am on Jan. 11, 2009


It is because "old" is associated with being decrepit, not in touch with the times, unable to adapt, forgetful, and unable to take care of oneself.
Most people in their fifties are called old but they're still capable and intelligent then


-- Posted by Bacon at 2:13 am on Jan. 11, 2009

One day, when we are able to disable and even reverse the physical signs of aging, we will all long to be older than each other.


-- Posted by Bearsy at 2:14 am on Jan. 11, 2009

Quote: from howaboutsno at 2:12 am on Jan. 11, 2009


people don't want to get older, because everything is downhill. everything sags, and you cant get away with much, plus everyone expects you to be mature.
Not true, old people pull the "senile" shit all the time to get away with whatever they want.

People laugh when old people pull shit like this all the time and everyone goes "Awwww, she just didn't know what she was doing!" but they know exactly what they're doing. They've finally gotten to the level of being able to say fuck all to self-consciousness and exploit our underestimation of them.


-- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 2:16 am on Jan. 11, 2009

Quote: from Its Bearsy Bitch at 2:11 am on Jan. 11, 2009


Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 2:10 am on Jan. 11, 2009

I ask people how old they are all the time, I work at a nursing home and it is hard to tell how old some of the people who live there are, so I ask.
but you can't deny "you're old" is generally meant to be insulting


True but I don't think people are old until they are over the age of 80, but that's because in my line of work I have met people that were over 95 yrs old, I used to care for a woman that was 104, I think aging is beautiful, Once I start going gray I'm gonna stop dying my hair, I think wrinkles are beautiful. How someone looks when they are old can tell you a lot about their life.


-- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 2:18 am on Jan. 11, 2009

Quote: from Bacon at 2:13 am on Jan. 11, 2009


One day, when we are able to disable and even reverse the physical signs of aging, we will all long to be older than each other.


See people can have their right sound mind until the die, but their body can't go on any longer, and then you get the people who's mind gives up years before their body does (Alzheimer's Disease.)


-- Posted by Bearsy at 2:18 am on Jan. 11, 2009

Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 2:16 am on Jan. 11, 2009


Quote: from Its Bearsy Bitch at 2:11 am on Jan. 11, 2009

Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 2:10 am on Jan. 11, 2009

I ask people how old they are all the time, I work at a nursing home and it is hard to tell how old some of the people who live there are, so I ask.
but you can't deny "you're old" is generally meant to be insulting

 
True but I don't think people are old until they are over the age of 80, but that's because in my line of work I have met people that were over 95 yrs old, I used to care for a woman that was 104, I think aging is beautiful, Once I start going gray I'm gonna stop dying my hair, I think wrinkles are beautiful. How someone looks when they are old can tell you a lot about their life.


Eh I doubt you'll be saying that when you're old but meh


-- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 2:20 am on Jan. 11, 2009

Quote: from Its Bearsy Bitch at 2:18 am on Jan. 11, 2009


Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 2:16 am on Jan. 11, 2009

Quote: from Its Bearsy Bitch at 2:11 am on Jan. 11, 2009

Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 2:10 am on Jan. 11, 2009

I ask people how old they are all the time, I work at a nursing home and it is hard to tell how old some of the people who live there are, so I ask.
but you can't deny "you're old" is generally meant to be insulting

 

 
 True but I don't think people are old until they are over the age of 80, but that's because in my line of work I have met people that were over 95 yrs old, I used to care for a woman that was 104, I think aging is beautiful, Once I start going gray I'm gonna stop dying my hair, I think wrinkles are beautiful. How someone looks when they are old can tell you a lot about their life.


Eh I doubt you'll be saying that when you're old but meh

I hope I will be saying it, it's funny how at 20 I am already imagining how I will be when I am old.


-- Posted by Bearsy at 2:21 am on Jan. 11, 2009

well once you're in your twenties you need to start preparing


-- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 2:23 am on Jan. 11, 2009

Quote: from Its Bearsy Bitch at 2:21 am on Jan. 11, 2009


well once you're in your twenties you need to start preparing

Yeah, but I know I won't be ready to settle down until I am in my thirties.


-- Posted by Bacon at 2:23 am on Jan. 11, 2009

Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 9:18 pm on Jan. 11, 2009


Quote: from Bacon at 2:13 am on Jan. 11, 2009

One day, when we are able to disable and even reverse the physical signs of aging, we will all long to be older than each other.

 
See people can have their right sound mind until the die, but their body can't go on any longer, and then you get the people who's mind gives up years before their body does (Alzheimer's Disease.)


Alzheimer's disease is still a physical problem (usually caused by the physical aging of the body - probably due to less effective immune system).

When someone "loses" their mind or has a mental disorder, it is STILL a physical problem. Somewhere in the brain, something isn't functioning correctly.


-- Posted by OkayKelsey at 2:39 am on Jan. 11, 2009

yea but people hate getting old...


-- Posted by NikkiG at 4:16 am on Jan. 11, 2009

cuz when u old u bout to die and dont nobody wanna die cuz everyone is scared of death for they know not what is gonna happen next...


-- Posted by HowAboutsNo at 4:51 pm on Jan. 11, 2009

Quote: from Its Bearsy Bitch at 9:14 pm on Jan. 11, 2009


Quote: from howaboutsno at 2:12 am on Jan. 11, 2009

people don't want to get older, because everything is downhill. everything sags, and you cant get away with much, plus everyone expects you to be mature.
Not true, old people pull the "senile" shit all the time to get away with whatever they want.

People laugh when old people pull shit like this all the time and everyone goes "Awwww, she just didn't know what she was doing!" but they know exactly what they're doing. They've finally gotten to the level of being able to say fuck all to self-consciousness and exploit our underestimation of them.


I dont mean grey hair old, i mean people going into their thirties, or even leaving their teens.


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