-- Posted by snowcone200 at 8:53 am on Jan. 11, 2009 Any ideas? I wrote a heartfelt letter. But I am womdering what you guys would do to start over with somebody. -- Posted by danndivision at 8:54 am on Jan. 11, 2009 give her the letter -- Posted by Micus at 8:54 am on Jan. 11, 2009 I would take steps to fix the things that caused the rift, requiring the second chance. -- Posted by Cherry Clouds at 8:54 am on Jan. 11, 2009 Just talk with them.. I made a huge mistake last summer, and lost some really close friends because of it, but I talked to them a few months ago about it and we're working on getting our friendship back to the way it was   -- Posted by chilly person at 8:55 am on Jan. 11, 2009 I have no idea. Just start talking I guess. -- Posted by Tex the drummer at 8:55 am on Jan. 11, 2009 i am sorry man, but i hate your avatar so much i never even read what you write -- Posted by atomictastic at 8:56 am on Jan. 11, 2009 I suggest talking to them and think about how there's many people out there and out of all of them that person will make your day. -- Posted by dfas at 8:58 am on Jan. 11, 2009 You first apologize, no excuses, no "im sorry that you blahblah"  tell them you love them, that you know you were in fault and that you expect them to forgive you for it, because you still really care about the "relationship" you had Then you give the person space, and wait for an answer. -- Posted by GEEraffBby at 8:58 am on Jan. 11, 2009 Just give her the letter. -- Posted by snowcone200 at 8:58 am on Jan. 11, 2009 Well rawkstar I wrote stuff like that in the letter. it 7pgs so I got everything in it