-- Posted by LittleBombs at 2:05 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 Your boyfriend or girlfriend doesn't find you physically attractive anymore? Like even though you know they love you, but it's like in the beginning they used to shower you with compliments, and then after a few months they don't do it anymore? And if they do it's only after you give them a compliment? I'm kinda feeling this way at the moment. I compliment my boyfriend tons, but the only time he does it is when I do it first. Or he would just say "Yeah, you too". And it makes me feel like I should either try harder with my appearance or just give up on trying. =/ -- Posted by Andie2323 at 2:07 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 I've found that when relationships last for awhile, it can kind of lose the "spark" that existed in the beginning. I'm not sure. But if you feel like it's getting a little boring, you should talk to your boyfriend about it. If it stays, it could be time to call it quits. -- Posted by 43911 at 2:07 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 he may be gettin used to being with u and trying harder i doubt he has stopped finding u attractive -- Posted by HaleyCW at 2:07 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 he prolly still finds u attractive, hes just used to you he flooded you to let u no how much he likes u, now that its serious he doesnt feel like he needs to, dont worry about it -- Posted by 43911 at 2:09 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 i just looked at your pics u hav nothin to worry about -- Posted by Points at 2:10 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 Yeah. :\ -- Posted by RainBowBow at 3:24 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 that's why before you go out with some one you need to find out what you like about them other than their looks