-- Posted by HeYyYyYysutton at 4:03 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 when your talking to your gf/bf and your relationship is unstable, which is the best way for you to fix things? for me, its talk in person or on the phone -- Posted by Mister Perfect at 4:04 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 In person -- Posted by PreppyPeyton at 4:05 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 In person. -- Posted by JeanClaude at 4:05 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 Just take him off your Top 8, he'll get the message -- Posted by xoAllixs0n at 4:05 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 in person, obviously. This way neither of you can get distracted and zone out. -- Posted by bimby at 4:05 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 always n person -- Posted by Descartes at 4:05 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 always in person -- Posted by suhgerr at 4:06 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 so much better in person -- Posted by palepalepeach at 4:08 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 In person > on the phone > online I stay calmer when I resolve relationship problems in person.  It's too easy to say hurtful things over texts or ims.   -- Posted by SpasticTurnip at 4:08 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 In person -- Posted by itakenbut at 4:09 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 in person no1 can read ur comments on myspace/facebook and u know its him -- Posted by soccastud07 at 4:10 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 in person definitly -- Posted by LoveKay at 4:12 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 I would never discuss relationship things with my boyfriend in any other way other than in person.