-- Posted by TheUnstoppableScentz at 4:15 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 Early last year, I was going out with a whom I thought to be great girl for around 3 months or so. I told her that I thought I loved her, and she pretty much told me to fuck off, "excuse the language". Since then I hardly talk to anyone I don't know, Whether it be Male or Female, I tend to keep to myself, and Im starting to think it's not normal. -- Posted by HiRyo at 4:16 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 Tis not normal, but I suppose its your way of getting over such an incident? Unless I'm a tard which can also be true. -- Posted by AcidSilence at 4:17 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 Your being reserved because you were hurt. Probably as she was, also. Start to work through it! -- Posted by loumac91 at 4:17 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 Maybe you have a fear of rejection? -- Posted by kaylyn13 at 4:19 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 that's normal. after my ex boyfriend and i broke up, i didn't talk to anyone, friends or family, for like five months. i kept to myself and avoid everyone. i didn't feel comfortable about talking to anyone because i was afraid they would make me talk about the break up, and i really didn't have the guts to at the time. it took me a long while to talk. so it is normal. if you do need to talk to anyone about it, message me. i'd be more than happy to listen.(: -- Posted by HaleyCW at 4:21 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 Quote: from AcidSilence at 4:17 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 Your being reserved because you were hurt. Probably as she was, also. Start to work through it! exactly what u need -- Posted by TheUnstoppableScentz at 4:26 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 Thanks for the comments, I guess it makes me feel a little better as i'm not the only one who's going/gone through the same thing. I have tried to work through it but I just couldn't open up like I used to be able to. -- Posted by LoveKay at 4:28 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 It does not matter, in this case, how many other people are going through the same thing. The matter is that you are letting yourself become this person, not anybody else. It is not the girl's fault and it is not anybody else's fault but yours. You chose this path for yourself. You chose not talk to people anymore. Not to go upto them and start conversations. Grow some balls, yo. -- Posted by dragon14 at 4:34 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 its normal but i talk 2 people just not bout my stuff. we ttalk bout there stuf. i hate talking bout my secerts. its mine and mine alone not anyone elses damn it and really if you do need sumone 2 talk 2 you can talk 2 me cause its not like im gunna tell everyone ur buissness. its your and your alone nobody else needs 2 no. plus im a loner anyway. i dont talk 2 many people.