-- Posted by Anonymous at 8:36 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 how often do they occur? im so afraid i'll never find anyone and its not that i don't take care of myself or anything--I work out, care about the way I look, and don't really fit the "gay" stereotype, you know? but i can definitely be picked up on gaydar im afraid i'll be alone forever and i dont want to have to go running into some LGBT club to find someone -- Posted by Joke at 8:36 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 not sure but gaydar? wtf you are gay. -- Posted by asia lover at 8:37 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 lol don't worry. Just be open with yourself. It is far more accepted in college than high school -- Posted by CookieNinja at 8:39 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 Gaydar -- Posted by Anonymous at 8:41 pm on Jan. 11, 2009 errr yes i'm gay...