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-- Posted by Anonymous at 6:07 am on Jan. 12, 2009

I like this boy and he likes me, though he doesn't know i like him. We don't get to see each other much at the moment so we've spoken a lot via text, email, net and all that jazz. He's always been very attentive but seemed shy - he doesn't have any experience with girls, in fact his friends thought previously he didn't care about getting a girlfriend or anything until we met and he was practically staring at me.

Well he was drinking and finally 'fessed up via flirt/compliment form that he's interested. I'm pretty shy though i seem really confident.. so i guess i just tried to be friendly, but he got really weird after that when i told him i was gona be busy for a week or so - i think he thought i was giving him the brush off but i was genuinely busy . The next time we really got talking again he said a lot of stuff that would show interest so i decided not to make the same mistake and carried on talking to him after but he was messing about not answering me and stuff for weeks.

Then he invited me to come see him in some production hes in i said yeah cool i'll try and tried to carry on speaking but within a while he wasn't answering - then today we were talking - he seemed back to normal again calling me babe and everything then he'd leave it like ten minutes before writing something back (this was via Instant messenger)

so i just joked about it - because i'm not the type to go 'WHY ARE YOU IGNORING ME?!' like the rest of the girls that like him.. then he wrote back 'lol sorry busy' i said you coulda said that before and i wouldnt have bothered you.. he put 'haha' then after a bit wrote 'i thought i did' which is stupid because if he'd already said he was busy he wouldn't have written it again.

can anyone tell me whats going on?


-- Posted by Mein Alias at 6:10 am on Jan. 12, 2009

Uhm, what do you need help with? Obviously he likes you and you like him. You've already found that out for yourself.

Fucking ask him out on a date tomorrow.


-- Posted by Miss Vanity at 6:16 am on Jan. 12, 2009

Quote: from Mein Alias at 6:10 am on Jan. 12, 2009


Uhm, what do you need help with? Obviously he likes you and you like him. You've already found that out for yourself.

Fucking ask him out on a date tomorrow.



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