-- Posted by santana 08 at 9:54 am on Jan. 12, 2009 I want you so bad. But you say we cant be together. You're willing to sneak around with me but dont want to be upfront and be my girlfriend? Wtf. Why wont you just be mine   /useless post -- Posted by cozysoxx at 9:55 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Okay. your speaking your feelings. Can you tell us the situation now so we can help you like the point of this forum? -- Posted by santana 08 at 9:56 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: from cozysoxx at 9:55 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Okay. your speaking your feelings. Can you tell us the situation now so we can help you like the point of this forum? My feelings are obvious dont you think? Im upset and saddened and just plain...idk...depressed because of the fact that this girl will not be mine. She tells me she wants to be with me, but cant? Stupid ass reasons...its like wtf. -- Posted by Majo at 10:07 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: from santana 08 at 12:56 pm on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: from cozysoxx at 9:55 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Okay. your speaking your feelings.    Can you tell us the situation now so we can help you like the point of this forum? My feelings are obvious dont you think? Im upset and saddened and just plain...idk...depressed because of the fact that this girl will not be mine. She tells me she wants to be with me, but cant? Stupid ass reasons...its like wtf. Your feelings are obvious but the situation isn't. We can't give you advice without knowing why she might be behaving this way. -- Posted by santana 08 at 10:42 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: from Majo at 10:07 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: from santana 08 at 12:56 pm on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: from cozysoxx at 9:55 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Okay. your speaking your feelings.   Can you tell us the situation now so we can help you like the point of this forum?    My feelings are obvious dont you think? Im upset and saddened and just plain...idk...depressed because of the fact that this girl will not be mine. She tells me she wants to be with me, but cant? Stupid ass reasons...its like wtf. Your feelings are obvious but the situation isn't. We can't give you advice without knowing why she might be behaving this way. She likes me and my friend (who shes known longer than shes known me)...and she also claims to be talking to someone else right now. so reasons we cant be together are: she doesnt want my friend and i to lose our frendship and she talking to someone else -- Posted by Majo at 10:55 am on Jan. 12, 2009 That's kind of bitchy, stringing three guys along at the same time. I know it hurts and I know you probably won't believe me but you'd be better off without her. She might even be doing it because she likes the attention. She's got at least one guy chasing after her and she's driving him nuts and some girls are nasty enough to thrive off of that. -- Posted by RahRahReplica at 11:54 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Or she doesn't feel ready to come out yet?   Unless she has come out. In which case she's just being selfish. You need to give her an ultimatum - either she makes it official with you or she doesn't and you leave. -- Posted by santana 08 at 1:05 pm on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: from RahRahReplica at 11:54 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Or she doesn't feel ready to come out yet? Unless she has come out. In which case she's just being selfish. You need to give her an ultimatum - either she makes it official with you or she doesn't and you leave. Shes out. Im not lol but I dont care. Shes the one who already sugesst that we just stay friends...but its hard for both of us